I seem innocent but I am and I am not!

Well, you can start very small, and work your way up. You can try one more additional thing each time you have an encounter. That way, it won't feel like you're taking on too much at any given time.

Well if you are still a virgin find someone you really care about(love) to give that to, don't just give it to anyone.you question is a little confusing. I'm going to let you in on a little secret the people who have sex don't talk about it. so don't worry what other people think. and the only way to get better is practice.

Maybe you should just BUST OUT, shock yourself.

You have already answered your own question--the thing you need to change so you can become more sexually active is your confidence level...and unfortunately, no one but yourself can make you more confident. Just take it step by step and I'm sure things will work out.

It's best just to LET people to think you're sweet and innocent. Everybody doesn't need to know your business. A lady should have some secrets, ya know? Do you really want people gossiping about you, not respecting you, and not taking you seriously like you deserve? Keep your freak side to a need-to-know basis.