I'll be honest, I've never had one. I've had women where I've done everything with but any kind of sex during some random encounter, but I never sleep with them.
Weird thing is, when I'm out and about sex with strangers and girl friends is all I can think about. Deep down I know it's really not what I want and I always manage to keep myself from going down that path... I've had the chance so many times and either blow it or purposefully turn girls down. So why am I still so adamant about wanting sleeping with everyone? I don't know.
It's not in my nature to have flings, and I know I won't even be satisfied afterwards anyway. Plus, I always worry about the repercussions especially with friends and co-workers. I'm also paranoid that I'll get an STD or something so I'm extremely careful all the time. I even carry a condom with me at most times even though I'm fairly certain I won't need it.
I'm not sure if I'm just being responsible or if my subconscious has that big of an influence on me, but I can't figure it out because I still find myself wanting to have these one night stands all the time.
Update: Well I ended up having one and it was pretty damn good. We'll probably continue being friends and hooking up until we both leave for the summer.
4 months ago
Thats because deep down you really want to do it. and its okay, your just horny and want to get laid. that's what most young guys think bout when they go to a bar or nightclub. my suggestion is to always use protection and be nice to her the next morning. even if you aren't attracted to her anymore.
Well, I would assume that you are a guy, so it is in your "nature" to want sex. Yet, just as you mentioned, maybe your have of responsibility and a conscience is more powerful, so you don't want to take advantage of the situation. You should be proud of yourself for this.
Probably one reason you want one is because you've never had one. Also, another reason you want one is because you have heard that other people have had them. We tend to want things when we know that other people have them.
A lot of people crave one night stands,.. women included.
I would say that the reason for each person is different, but probably a lot are excited about the lack of emotion involved, the taboo of it, the danger, etc. etc.
It could really be a lot of things,.. and perhaps if you really think about it for long enough, you might find what it really is that excites you about it. That way, you might be able to find a way to live through the fantasy of a one night stand without having to go through one (since you seem to have emotional reservations about it).
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On a first date we go and grab a coffee in a shop and talk about stuff we like, and then based upon mutual interests plan an outing then and there. Clothing should be normal, plain enough for every day to set a standard of how things are. Plus, whatever you go out and do, you should be willing to do it in those clothes, so suede isn't the best if you say you're going to the zoo.
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