Am I a slut?

No hun, you're just fine. You probably wouldn't even be thinking that if he hadn't said it.
You know, there are many different guys who you could chose to have a casual relationship with, if you want one guy for that. And it can be one who won't think of you in the way that the current one does.
Just keep your options open. But don't worry about what was said. There's nothing wrong with you. ;-)

Well enjoying sex is different than cheating on someone because you can't control yourself. I think people correlate the two ideas when it comes to women. That you couldn't be monogamous if you were in a relationship because the first guy that you felt attraction to would cause you to cheat on your current guy.

Maybe this guy was just trying out some sex-talk in the bedroom? If he really meant what he said, that was pretty shitty of him. Did you ask him if he was just role playing or just let it happen? Just write him off as a loss if you think he doesn't respect you. Well. His loss, not yours :)

The question being is do you think your a slut? if not don't worry about it.Just don't tell a guy that you really like that youve slept around like that.Be creative expand your mind your conciousness feed your brain with intelligence,pride and wisdom.Get into things that real people with real feelings do,like art, or music,DO you have any talents besides you know?

find yourself find inner peace...If you don't take yourself seriously how do you expect anyone els to? maybe then you'll attract men, instead of jerks....

You are young and enjoying life, which is good but 16 sexual partners in such a short time is too much, beside the risk of std's, especially aids hiv and herpes which are not curable, what will you tell the guy of your dreams when you both decide to settle down, when he asks you about your past will you tell him the truth or will you want to lie about how many guys you've been with, if the answer is you wouldn't want him to know all of your past then you should think about it next time you want to have fun with a guy, or have a one night stand.

Be more selective when comes to choosing your partners. That's about it. No you are not a slut. Everyone enjoys sex whether we have it with 1 partner or several. I can tell you are confident with yourself that's cool. Don't let anyone ever put you down.

I think a slut is a girl who has sex with a lot of guys for the wrong reasons (popularity, attention, to make a guy love her). I don't think you're a slut, you just enjoy sex. sex is pleasurable. if you enjoy an activity then it makes sense to do it. um, keep doing you but if you want a serious relationship look for a guy who doesn't know your past and don't tell him the real number. =)

No way, you're not a slut. You just like sex. Somehow we've been brainwashed to believe we're not supposed to enjoy it.

A little advice though: be selective. And tell your FWB that you're not "his" until he makes a commitment.

You sound a lot like me - a very social person and not tied down to any one guy. But if you want men to take you more seriously, you gotta change your lifestyle. Like, when you flirt, aim for dinner or a date instead of sex. Let them know that's what you want, to be taken seriously. The rest will follow!

Good luck :)

That was rude of him sometimes guys don that in bed because they think its hot. Talk to him and tell him it hurt your feeling.

Well, he is a dick for making you feel that way. I would have said.. Well, this slut is out of business with you.. But, no you are not a slut. Just use protection. We seem to never judge guy's when they sleep with people. If you want a serious guy? Don't sleep with them for awhile. Dump this guy though.

Hey if a guy sleeps with over 25 girls what do you call that? If he called you a slut so is he...I still don't understand why its still a man thing. Guys do the same thing and sleep with as much people as possible yet they are considered something good - but I think this way if a guy calls me a slut for enjoying sex than I would call him a slut also...I can't stand it when guys think that if a girl has slept with at least 6 guys than she's a slut - no sweetie you are not a slut just sexually active...which is a good thing for the body at some point as long as your protecting yourself!!!!

Enjoying sex does not define you as a slut. Protected or unprotected sex only defines how cautious you are as a sexual partner. A slut is - "Slut is a pejorative term for a person who is deemed sexually promiscuous. The term has traditionally been applied to women and is generally used as an insult or offensive term of disparagement."
- from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut>

I think with today's sexually charged behavior that it is more and more common for younger folks to have a higher number of partners as compared to some of us older folks. However, the actual term slut has remained a negative term. For the guy to have called you that may have been very offensive. However, in sexual relationships among many, using derogatory terms is part of the sexual expression. If you are genuinely offended, ask him why he called you that and perhaps explain your offense taken. Also keep in mind just as he is entitled to his opinion, so are you, you may choose to never get intimate with him again for his opinion and you may choose to believe he is a pig for saying that.

BOTTOM LINE: What matters is what you think. If you are enjoying multiple partners, then do so. If you don't then slow it down a bit.

No hunni you are NOT a slut !! and a lot of guys might say you are because guys are narrow minded were girls enjoying sex is concerned!! if you enjoy sex and are safe then that's the way to be I think girls who are sluts are the girls who don't use protection and that have sex with guys they don't even fancy!!