Im 21 and my man is 28, when we have sex I don't really feel anything I just get off of the fact that I'm pleasing him, and the way he expresses himself when we're at it. I feel sexy and all because he likes it A LOT but there's just two problems; I don't feel anything, just something going in and out, and he cums so fast that's kind of a turn off but he says he can go longer it's just that I'm always really tight even after our baby which is 4m old, I'm still tight but that's his excuse for cumming too fast. I can't tell him that I don't feel anything because I don't wanna mess things up. But what can I do to make things better.
If you mean that you don't feel anything physically, than try something new, whatever you need to make things better for you. Your 'man' is obviously enjoying himself, so you need to make yourself a priority, do as was previously said and make it known what you want, do it in the heat of the moment and he will be quite likely to help out I'm sure.
I do know, however, of a person who physically cannot feel any 'enjoyment' through sex because of a previous partner, who has 'screwed' her up for life (this as diagnosed by a doctor). If nothing seems to be working, it's a possibility - something I hope that you don't have to go through.
What do you mean you don't feel anything? Like emotionally? Or it feels like he's throwing his hot dog down your hallway? If you don't get to cum or anything and you still want to be with this man you have a few options:
1. invest in a vibrator and rechargeable batteries 2. get a good looking gardener of pool cleaner 3. which is the most serious of these answers: Ask him to go down on you, tell him to make up for it in oral. Don't be so scared to ask for what you want. Be a little more selfish because after a while it just get more and more frustrating for you. But keep it clean down there if you want him to satisfy you more. Your putting up with a lot , I know a lot of chicks who would simply find someone else to bone.
Sometimes things like children are unplanned. I am one of the lucky few who has been careful and made it to adulthood without a child, but this has been due to my diligence in making sure to have protection. There are tons of single moms - 10 months ago
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My baby was unplanned,& 4 evry1 else who keeps talking about the baby situation,i was the most responsible person because of my family & I knew they wud react CRAZY. I was on b-control & using condoms just incase.i evn had my period the 1st 4mths of my pregncy - 10 months ago
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Well alls I was saying was..if you didn't feel it before you had a baby, then why care about it now. - 10 months ago
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