Anal sex

Ok well first of if your man gets mad at you for not being in the mood than that's a problem because you can't be turned on all the time. But anal sex is just a lot of hype trust me is not that good for a few reasons. 1. It's painful for the girl. 2. It's a messy job. And you can tell him that and if he isn't mature enough to handle it then find a more respectful guy.

forget him! anal sex is DISGUSTING! you have a vagina tell him to use that or go find some yong guy. I don't understand where this love of sodomy came from I can't even understand how guys even fit in there. I am completely am on your side!

My (now ex) girlfriend a few years ago gave me (? is that the right wording) anal sex for a birthday present.

It's a few things. Physical sensation is quite different to vaginal sex. It's tighter, and there is a vacuum effect because of that tightness that makes it feel almost like a blow job. There's also the power/dominance turn on, as well as the taboo component. Also, subconsciously, the ass looks like breasts, which adds further excitement.

When I did it, I quite enjoyed and would have liked it more often, except for one thing. My Girlfriend didn't like it, at least in the sense, it didn't do anything for her. To me, I couldn't see the point in having sex in a style that she didn't like. Despite it feeling good for me, her lack of enjoyment killed my enjoyment.

And I guess that's really my point. Sex should never be about just what "I want". Great sex, especially with someone you care for, should always be a 2 way thing. You said your boyfriend gets mad when you say you're not in the mood. To me, that doesn't sound like a boyfriend you want to keep (sorry for bluntness).

Dominance is biolagically excited to any guy and submission is biologically excited to any girl, unless she is being social conditioned against it. The pain should turn you on to, you don't to do it every time he asks tho, but if you feel ok with doing it, don't hesitate and having some fun and make him happy.

I don't know why but I think that porn stars make anal sex look super hot and so I think because most guys watch porn want to try it. That's what I think. Well I've tried it and she loved I especially loved it alt. Well yea it was a exciting experience. If you do though you have to get cleaned out first. Well have fun.

Don't force ur self,it's ur choice whether you do it or not is up to u.He should respect you enough to understand.

Peace!

haha we make mad fun of this girl at my school cause did anal but also she is a mad hoe but yeah don't do it

He probably wants to because he enjoys it so much. He likes how he fits in there and how excited and sensitive it makes him. As long as you have it with him except when you're not in the mood then he should honor your wishes like anything else you might not be in the mood for at any particular time, or you honoring his wishes when he's not in the mood for something. He probably thinks you tease him some times by saying no because you know he enjoys it so much and that's why he gets mad. lol! Girls can be big teases that way. I can see why he'd be disappointed but not mad and you need to tell him you don't like when he gets mad over that. Make sure he understands that you enjoy having anal too but that you're not always in the mood like he is and if respects your wishes someday you might in the mood more often.

if you like it do it if you don't tell him if he still gets mad get rid

maybe cause he has a big penis and he wants you to feel him in that spot?

if you don't want to
just say no

if he don't respect your decision he can find someone else can't he

I would say that it could because your anal is tighter. I have always heard that, but I have never had anal sex so I can't say from experience.

If you like it, say yes,
If you don't like it, say NO

Not much more complicated.
If he doesn't accept 'no' as a valid answer, dump him.

Well, if you don't want to do it, you don't want to do it. Just make it clear that he needs to respect you and what you want. He can live without anal sex. The world won't end. Make him a special dinner or something that he really loves to eat, because guys LOVE FOOD. As do I. And that should keep him distracted. And to the why he wants anal sex, it might just be that he likes how it feels or a fetish.

he has prob seen it in a porn. like all men do.

he should not get mad what a jerk!
he has to respect u.
u should b the one getting mad at him because he only thinks about his pleasure

the key to solving this is communicate. my boyfriend asks very nicely and ask if I'm in the mood. if its no then we'll simply do anal play instead which he say is pretty sexy as well.

Anal sex hurts women. And if he can't be understanding and loving, then LOSE the turd! What a jerk! Serious, don't feel bad when he gets mad.. You guys can try little anal beads during vaginal sex, it is kinky, doesn't hurt, he can do it, AND sometimes it makes the vagina tighter.


but if he's being an arce, tell him goodbye

He gets mad because he likes doing it with you so much duhh. lol! My boyfriend is the same so we try to fit it in with our regular lovemaking whenever either of us want it so that I don't tease him so much with that. He cums so fast whenever he does it and it always makes me laugh. He says it's because he doesn't have to wear a condom plus it has a feeling all its own that just overpowers him to where he loses all control of himself. lol!.