Does it bother guys when the girl is overweight?

This is a sensitive question, but I'll answer it honestly. I personally much prefer slim girls. I find them prettier and more attractive. The old saying of "Men like something to get hold of" is nonsense, I'm afraid, and is usually used by women who are overweight trying to justify their size. Why do clothing manufacturers use skinny models in their ads? It's because slim women look a lot better. Sorry, big ladies out there, I'm just being honest.

It doesn't bother all guys, just like not every girl needs a fitness model boyfriend. Regarding why they'd stare at you. Some people just appreciate health, fashion, fitness, or beauty, even if they don't really pay too much attention to their own appearances. I think that in general, people have a good idea how attractive they are compared to others. Maybe you just stick out for that reason.

Most of the times these guys lack the confidence to go for the prettier, hotter, sexier girls, so they settle for the chubbier ones. Now, some guys, like my friend, do love the thicker girls, but if they are breaking their neck to look at you, most likely is because they are lacking the self confidence to go for girls like you, so they settle for what they think is all they can get. A bit politically incorrect there, but the truth hurts :

I have had guys ask me to gain weight....or tell me I would be perfect if I gained 10lbs...LoL.Everyone likes something different. Some guys like bigger girls.

I mean who really cares? Is it any of your business? This just seems like you were trying to get some attention to me. Don't you also wonder why some girls your size who are beautiful are with bigger guys?

Of course you don't do you? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so everyone who thinks otherwise should just get over themselves.

Hmm well don't you think your all that. I'm sure your not great, hun. And your stupid attitude guys probably hate it. Your stuck up. And you know what? I think a guy would pick a fat girl with a huge heart over a mean girl ANY day.

Question:
"uh, why does that girl have him? She's ugly, I should have him. She doesn't deserve him, look at her, I'm soo much better then her. Why can't I get a guy like that? "

Answer:
Because of that constipated look on your face.

Lol I guess some fat chick got the guy you wanted huh? Tough luck hun. Ps, aren't you tired of posting questions all over this site where you always go on and on about how "hot" you are or think you are? You must not be that self confident when you feel the need to come on a website and declare what a fine specimen you are.
and no, I am not overweight before you get on a soapbox and yada yada yada.

Oh so you're one of those people who believe that because someone is overweight or not smoking hot they don't deserve to be with anyone but someone who's ugly. Did you ever think that maybe this person you think of as the ugly ducking may be a wonderful person and have an incredible mind. Have you ever thought there is more to people then just their looks. I know the beautiful people like you, may not recognize the fact that you don't have to have a perfect body to have a hot guy like you, but you don't so get over it. Its not all about the body, nice looking guys sometimes like to be treated nicely by a nice woman, even if she is not a bombshell like yourself. Maybe if you stopped thinking so highly of yourself maybe you'd be the one with the good looking guy. As for why the guy is looking at you well I can tell you why, he wondering why a pretty girl like you is still alone but it's because of the attitude, but then again he can't see your conceited, condescending, attitude from where he's standing, now can he.

and oh by the way I'm not overweight either and I like my body too,
i just don't like the attitude you show here I don't care how flawless you think you are.

Well sweetie, looks aren't everything. Not every guy I know likes stick thin girls.