I'm pretty sure I'm gay

Sounds like your on the fence, bisexual? Find guys to date, and find girls to date see how things go with both. Hell date a guy and a girl at the same time (thats if their cool with that).

How can you be sure that you won't like a relationship with a guy unless you have one (or more)? Are you sure that it isn't just a fear of relationships that makes you resist trying to date men?

in my opinion, you're thinking about it too much. The mind is a powerful thing. It could be that simply focusing on how you thought you should feel made it so, even though you weren't attracted to the girl.

i don't think you're gay, I think you fear dating men due to inexperience.

Well, whatever floats your boat.

People used to tell me "you're not really bisexual until you've been with a girl", but being with a girl was actually more of a turn off than anything else! The point it; you don't need an experience to validate your feelings. If you like women one day, then men the next; that is okay. You don't need to label yourself. If you find someone that makes you happy, you shouldn't worry about their gender (you can work with whatever they've got! ). Ani Difranco says "I don't care about sex or race; I just wanna hear your voice, I just wanna see your face. "
By the way, having both a girlfriend and s boyfriend is stressful; it's fun if you can handle it with work and/or school and keeping track of your own lies. =)

It sounds to me more like you're bisexual, however more often than not prefer women over a man. This is quite normal with being bisexual (I have several gay and bisexual friends), you get turned on by both sexes, but one sex turns you on just that little bit more, normally.

When I was growing up I experimented a bit with girls and found it exciting. I'm very much straight as I can only see myself with men, and really don't feel able to get physical with another girl, however I still get a bit turned on with the idea. Personally I think this is also quite natural, but some girls are too shy to admit it!

Try not to think about it all so much, it'll just make you feel confused and stressed. Don't think of yourself one way or another, if you meet someone and feel it's right to be more than friends, then go for it, don't worry so much about whether they're a girl or a guy!

Hope this helps ;)

Sounds like your gay, sweetie. Here's how to know for sure: what happens when you think of a big, fat hard cock? When I think about it, it arouses me. I see women who are beautiful, but I have never gotten wet from one. In fact a beautiful friend of mine and I frequently dance seductively with each other to drive guys crazy on the dance floor, but it has never really excited me. But, you'll never know until you try. Whatever you are, NEVER feel ashamed, and be honest about who you are and enjoy!

Girls like to stick with girls. Perhaps you just have a close relationship with girls. Maybe you have a fear of guys that prevents you from seeing that side of connection with another. Sex (you know what I mean). Explore. If you are truly gay then just embrace it, but I wouldn't call it quits on guys just yet.