Cheating -lack of sex part 2?

i believe online chatting is emotional cheating... they are having a flirty conversation with someone else, when they could be with you
just because its online and not in person doesn't take away from the fact that you are being robbed of an emotional connection with him and him threatening with tattle telling shows he's immature and if I were you.. I'd tell my parents and if he does say anything or threatens more.. say so what I told them already... that removes his so called power over you and he's left pathetic and alone

dont worry about him telling your parents. he don't have the balls because I can tell you now that if a guy came up to me and started describing all the detail that he did with my daughter...well no body - no murder, lol.

PS. I know as my daughter gets older her having sex is going to happen, but a loser describing it to me cause he was rejected is going to be his last mistake.

There are many reasons why your breaking up was the right thing to do:

1. He was cheating.
2. He was referring to you as "ex" and "boring"
3. He tried to black mail you.

He can not be trusted.

Dont make fake profiles, just stand up to people and confront them normal. It makes you seem crazy and that alone would push me away.

If he has to go online to talk to women that is pretty sad. Forget about him and move on. He won't tell your parents either.

Id dump you there and then. You make fake profiles to check up ion your boyfriend! That's pathetic and proves that you too are not "soul mates" you need to trust someone to be in a relationship with them

He is a cheater, you are a virgin (?), you guys are not a match. Face it now and move on. In a few years you will be glad you did.

Good Luck
James

I have no sympathy for this guy. But that said some perspective from my own experience. May be discuss with him for once what he wants from the relationship and then let him go!

Please don't hate me for this !

I have been committed to a girl in my teens but we never had anything sexual as such. But still I yearned for the sexual gratification. I couldn't bring up the issue with her, may be I was shy or afraid of loosing her.

I got involved in chatting online with other girls, created some fake profiles. Sometimes I also got into erotic chat.

I still sometime get into online chatting with other girls on impulse. And it really makes my partner angry. Trying to overcome the issue ...

In my case, I didn't mean to cheat but couldn't get sex out of my mind ! (I know that's not an excuse ...)

yea he's cheating I would consider it cheating anyway, and no he didn't know it was you he's just saying that. just move on and find a guy that will respect you, and tell him if he's gonna blackmail you that you'll yell every one he's got a little wiener haha but seriously get a new guy haha

Sh*tstorms blow over, and your ex is blackmailing you. Point that out to him, and that's its a crime in some states, and that you will never, ever speak to him again.

you can tell his probably still a little boy.who tells a girl if you don't talk to him he's going to tell your parents what you done.about the emailing with other girls and calling you boring girl is messed up and I personally think he don't care about you.one time I did the same with my boyfriend I created a msn and spoke to me on it.and he could me he knew it was me and I believed him because when I was talking to him right away he was like I know your my girlfriend and I tried to play it off and he was like I know its you.you write just like her and have about the same grammar error.lols it was so embarrassing when he called me to ask me why was I doing that.so if your ex didn't do the same he didn't know it was you.i think you should move on.

what a f***ing asshole. ditch him. you're too good for him. he's a child, throwing a tantrum and lying (terribly) to get out of trouble. it would be different if he came to you and sat you down and asked if you could try doing this or doing that and move with you, but he just said 'f*** it' and tried to get laid via-internet. he has no respect for you, your relationship, or even his own self. you deserve and will get better. trust me.

He's definitely cheating! You should've known that the minute he said "I knew it was you all along" now that's bs. He was using that as a cover up! Sex is definitely a reason why most guys cheat. If a guy has not had sex in a while I swear his head will explode from being backed up lol they need to release that anger, stress, excitement etc. whatever!

ok this is easy he's blackmailing you my ex did it all the time and I felt for it and he denied it I caught him in the act and he still denied it. Please learn from my experience I know you love him and its hard because he's acting like he really loves you and can't live without you but he will do it again. You need to think to yourself is this what you want forever? Is this going to be your life? Let him threaten you because that's all it is b*llsh*t. You deserve someone that doesn't make you feel like your feeling right now. Horrible. If it was real then it wouldn't feel like this. He is a skumbag and you already know what you should do. It's doing it that's the hard part. Best of luck!

Ps: You already went with your instinct and what you thought would happen already did just think what would have happened if you didn't. Not to mention what is he doing that you didn't catch?That is the question. and he had no idea it was just just an fyi. Why is he on plenty of fish isn't that a dating site?if your dating why is he on that in the first place? Always go with your gut it never lies...

I can totally help you with this one because I've made up fake accounts and found out my boyfriend was flirting. I put up with it for ages! and then one day I flipped out and ended things and he totally changed as a person. Now he's amazing and wouldn't dare go behind my back and we've been together for nearly two years. You need to tell him you know everything and how much its hurt you and you need to realize that you don't deserve this because he wasnt telling the truth to you he was making up some bullsh*t story for you to believe. I know I'm being blunt but I hate seeing girls getting walked all over :( you don't deserve to be hurt and you should end things just to see what he does even though yous have been together for a long time. If he doesn't come running back to you then you know that you deserve better and have to move on. He shouldnt be flirting with people or slagging you off at this stage in your relationship. If he blackmails you and tells your parents just tell them that yous used to go to school together and he's making it up because yous had a fight. If he's planning on blackmailing you then it shows what a horrible person he is.
Hope your okay hun :) xxxxx

Just drop him. Whether he actually did anything physical with another girl or not, it's still emotional cheating and is generally a really sh*tty thing for him to be doing.

Also, if he follows through and actually approaches your parents (he won't), then it's just your word against his. Who are they more likely to believe? Probably their daughter who is not a 25-year old man baby...

he seems like an asshole. drop him seriously. he's a jerk because he's talking to other girls. and he was calling you his 'ex' while you guys were still together. that's not a good sign babe. and he's a jerk for holding anything you guys may have done against you. if he really cared about you he definitely wouldn't have thought of doing that to you.

Boo on this guy. Drop him now because it's obvious he's a lying jerk. What could he possibly tell your parents that is that bad?

he's cheating babe... if you didn't have sex then I don't think your parents can be that mad and honestly... would your parents even talk to some guy who comes and is psycho like that? Maybe just cry to your parents and say some guy who you've been interested in broke your heart and make them feel bad for you so that when/IF he comes over they'll be like shut up jer and go away.