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Still A Virgin Despite Masturbating?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: More than a year ago
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If you have never had sex but you have masturbated are you still a virgin? I haven't ever had sex with a guy. A guy has NEVER fingered me or gone down on me either. However, I have masturbated, does that mean I'm not a virgin anymore?

Will sex hurt me when I have it and will I bleed? Or because I've masturbated it won't hurt and I won't seem like a virgin?

Thing is, I'm afraid that my boyfriend who knows I'm a virgin won't believe me when he has sex with me because I've masturbated. And NO I am NOT telling him I've masturbated. That's my personal business, not his. It's been months since I have though because I decided not to do it anymore until I have sex for the first time. Please enlighten me on this.


Update: No vibrators, no toys. Just fingers.    More than a year ago

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WayTooPopular
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WayTooPopular      When: More than a year ago
Technically you're a virgin until your cherry is popped, which is probably impossible with just your fingers so you are very likely considered a virgin from a medical, physical, technical standpoint. You're still going to be virgin tight unless by 'using your fingers' you meant the whole hand.

Whether you consider yourself a virgin is up to you, you have to decide whether sex with yourself really counts. Probably 99% of people on the planet would say it doesn't, if that helps. For example, just about every guy jacked off long before he ever got to do a girl. Who's going to say that a guy who has only screwed himself is not a virgin?

If you're religious, you'll have to look up how your religion treats the whole thing.

Lastly, gotta say if you're going to have sex with your boyfriend, it kind of is his business that you've masturbated. I'm not saying you have to tell him straight up, I just mean if you're in a sexual relationship and he asks you if you've ever done anything to yourself, you need to be honest (unless you want him to just lie about his own sex habits too, which is a trade guys will gladly take, trust me).
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jdaobfan The "cherry pop" idea is not technical or medical. You're a virgin until a guys penis has been in your vagina! - More than a year ago

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bigascanb
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bigascanb      When: More than a year ago
your still a virgin no matter how many times you masturbate
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vortexofdoom97
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vortexofdoom97      When: More than a year ago
You're a virgin in my book till you share that feeling with someone else. Nothing else to say.
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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116      When: More than a year ago
Maybe it will bleed a little, but maybe not. You won't know until you do it.

But yes, you're still a virgin. You only lose it after you've been intimate with another person. ;-)
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archer86      When: More than a year ago
Sex is when TWO people get involved. If fingers did count, then nobody would be virgins as pretty much everyone has masturbated at one time or another before having full sex with a partner.

Virginity is not broken until you have sex with a partner. Plain and simple.

There will be some pain for your first time, but other than that, you should go into this with acceptance and the quest for pleasure. Not strictly for his benefit.

That's right ladies, you heard that from a MAN!
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imin34      When: More than a year ago
Well, it depends on your religion (if ur religious) or it depends on what you think. I consider people that only masturbate virgins. You are not a virgin if you have been with another person and have had sex. But hey, that's just me :)
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Lesae
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Lesae      When: More than a year ago
You are still a virgin. No fingers are much smaller than most guys, you will bleed a little but make sure you are with the right guy. Do it because you love him not because he wants you to. Do it for the right reasons.
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dreday      When: More than a year ago
Well depends, do you have a vibrator? If you just use your fingers I'm sure you will feel a bit of pain. Seriously he won't notice.
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