Oral sex

I believe that the resentment or anger you feel toward oral sex is part of the reason you can't get over it. You need to figure out what reasons are interfering with your desire to perform oral sex on your man. Does he not deserve it? Is he not clean? Does he not satisfy you, so you don't want to completely satisfy him? Is it just too gross?

Once you establish the reason, then you have to ask yourself if you can get over it. Is he worth trying harder for? Do you need to negotiate the terms of the arrangement. You will give the head, but you won't swallow. Work out an agreement on how many times you think are really reasonable in a week or month. But listen to his wants and desires to. The only secret to a happy sexual relationship is when neither side is feeling that they are missing out on too much. But there has to be compromise and understanding in the mix. Talk to your man about your fears and feelings.

You should be able to overcome your fears by experimenting slowly, and trying to do a little more each time (maybe try tasting it a little at a time before you try swallowing).

But only if it's something you REALLY want to do for him. If he's making you feel "a bit pissed" then he's probably a douche bag and not really worth it (sorry). And he should definitely be willing to return the favor -- sometimes it helps YOU get into it when someone is going down on you at the same time.

Help me out ladies. Isn't it true that sometimes when you're in the 69 and someone is really going to town on you down there, you can't help but really get into it, and sometimes you find yourself actually taking it deeper than you thought you could?

Ok, this is such a common problem, I can answer this for you. I will try to keep it short.

First of all, your boyfriend should not be forcing you to do anything you dislike, period. If you don't like blow jobs, don't do it. If he continues to force you even though you have told him about how you dislike this, there's a problem with HIM, not you.

With that out of the way, your problem is very common amongst women. Your dilemma is more emotional than technical. You mentioned you dislike blow jobs because of how you were raised which means you have a mental block on giving oral. You must eliminate the emotional letdowns when having sex otherwise you will never enjoy yourself. Always focus on what you are doing and enjoy it, meaning you are HAVING SEX! The problems is not your technique because he wants more. There are lots of websites out there that talks specifically about blow jobs which will be beneficial to you.

Ejaculating in a woman's mouth is actually a good thing because it really fires up the man. Cum does not tastes bad, it's just a bit messy. Sex is supposed to be 'dirty', that is what makes sex so much fun. YOU DON'T HAVE TO SWALLOW! But if you choose so, you may find it to be fun as well. Just don't do it so often. Swallowing is a signal for 'acceptance' to a man. But shooting cum is not a bad thing.

If all this help does not convince you, then just firmly tell him no more. I say let him do some oral on YOU(called muffin-diving) to show that oral sex is not a woman-for-man thing only. If he is talented, you just might be surprised at the orgasm you receive.

Hope this helps.

It's not that bad to me. First of all, you shouldn't be doing it just for him. If you don't like doing, WHY are you doing it? You don't owe it to him. Secondly, you don't always have to swallow it. It's not like there's like liters of it or something, you won't choke, TRUST me. The only way you would is if you deepthroat, yeah, it's hard(no pun intended), but if you like it, you'll take it to the limit ;-)! If you're not doing for the both of your enjoyment, then you need to let that go, leave him alone. Don't feel forced.

There is a few things that you are asking about here. First of all.It is not right for a guy to insist you do things that you don't feel comfortable in doing. If you truly do not wish to engage in this activity.You will not enjoy what you are doing and it won't work very well for either of you.

For me, it is a turn on to know that I am doing something that makes my man feel so good. If he is turned on.That is a major turn on for me also. Now, if you are willing to try this I have some ideas for you. There are specialty creams that you can get that will allow you to perform and I promise you that you will make him very happy. This will allow you to swallow and you will never taste a thing. His penis will be so far down your throat that it just shoots back. You can get these creams at an adult novelty store where you can buy other sex toys and such.

If you are worried about the taste.That depends on his diet. What goes in must come out.So,
Foods that make semen taste bad:
Asparagus, chicken, garlic, onions, dairy products, red meat, broccoli, cauliflower, brussel sprouts, greasy food, spices, coffee and chocolate are all thought to make semen taste unpleasant.

Foods that make semen taste good:
Plums, mangoes, pineapples, nectarines, oranges, lemons, limes, parsley, coriander, spearmint, peppermint, grapefruit and green tea, sweeties and apple are thought to make semen taste sweet

Honey I have the same problem, but at least my boyfriend doesn't demand me to do it. I only did it once for him and I hated it. I thought it was so disgusting, I can't believe girls enjoy doing that sort of thing for just any guy. Plus I didn't really know what I was doing anyways. So I guess that didn't help matters. But I don't think your boyfriend should demand that from you, that's just wrong of him in so many ways. It sounds to me like he is a selfish little boy, who needs to return the favor sometime.