i was with a guy for a year and four months. we used to have sex all the time. I mean like every time we saw each other. I got tired of it so I just kept telling him I was not in the mood. I told him that I wanted to just hang out with each other rather tha always having sex. (when I say always I mean like 3-5 times a week) two weeks later he broke up with me so what's going on?
He might have broken up with you because he thought that now that you didn't want to have sex with him all of a sudden then that meant you weren't into him, or maybe he thought you were cheating on him.
Him breaking up with you after only 2 weeks of no sex is kind of quick though...maybe he was just mad/upset and acted on impulse instead of talking it out with you? How long ago did that happen?
I agree with these guys only because a year and 4 months is quite some time to just be using someone for sex. I love sex. and id love to have it all the time, but its definitely not because I'm using a guy. I use to have it multiple times a day with my ex, but I loved him. The key would be if you ONLY had sex. if you did other things, like go out , hang out with friends, and go on dates together etc then I think you're ok. maybe to talk to him and ask him his reason(s) for breaking up. - 5 months ago
k, was he ur first? Guys are very sexual beings, we think of sex as often as possible. Take it as a compliment if the guy wants to still have sex with you everyday even after a year..believe me, it just means that you are still very attractive in his eyes. As for me, I have sex with my girl everyday also, 3 times a day sometimes. But if you are getting tired, then simply talk to him by telling him if you could cut down from sex to lets say, 2 times a week. Compromise is the key to a healthy relationship. Oh, did you ask him y he broke up with u? Maybe its not bec of the sex. Hope this helps. Take care
If you got tired of having sex with him it means it was not working out. However, you could have handled it a little differently. Instead of just stopping sex and saying you are not in the mood, you could have tried suggesting doing things that you enjoy. Like you could go out for something and then come back for sex. Slowly you could have got him to enjoy other things.
That's hard to say, if I was using a girl for just sex it wouldn't go on for that long. I'd probably be looking for it other places too so it would be over way sooner than that. I know if I was just dating a girl and was used to doing it 3-5 times a week, which is still less than I'd want, and then she started telling me she didn't want to I'd think she was cheating on me. I also wouldn't be satisfied with that amount of sex so I'd probably break it off, and not to sound like a jerk but that is the reason for dating to see if you are compatible on all levels. Now if all he ever did was come over for sex and that's it and never wanted to just hang out and go do things then yes he was just using you for sex.
Although I'm young and inexperienced, I would say he was using you by the looks of it because he broke up with you soon after you refused to sleep with him as often as before.
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