So guys

Sorry for your guy, to hear about your "P.S." - but this may change as you get older. LOL

You were right, every guy is a little different. Some of us are "butt" men, some are "boobs" men, others go nuts over "legs". Find out what your guys likes (and pray it isn't something nutty like feet or noses!). I knew a guy once who liked girls with "big noses"... (yeah, okay then).

Me, I am a st-8 up, red blooded, whiskey drinkin' American man who just loves a girl that has a nice big backyard, if you know what I mean. I like a girl that can really fill-out her jeans. To me, there's nothing sexier than a lady with nice long hair, reminding me of just how lucky I am to be a man with good sight, while she's shakin' her butt, or moving on the dance floor. I don't care if she 18 or 45, if she's got curves she's not afraid to use, she's got my attention. Like I said, every guy's different. Find out what your man likes about you, and use it to your advantage.

Hint: There is no such thing as "overplaying" a man's fetish.

Good old fashioned hugging and cuddling does wonders when turning on your partner. The more body contact, the better. Hand massages on a man's body, not necessarily his genitals, is another good one as a prelude to some fun. Also, just be energetic and enthusiastic with your lovemaking. Once a guy knows you enjoy doing this, you will be rewarded. Finally, sexy, revealing clothes reserved for him is a major turn on such as sexy lingerie.

You don't have to give head as this is sex and not just a turn on for sex. But you are not willing to give head, I think you miss out on good all-around sex. I suggest to experiment before you write this off completely. If you still wish not to do this anymore, fine. But don't let a guy force you. Yet, no oral sex makes for some plain sex in my experiences, especially if you will not allow oral on YOU!

Ok its the year 2008 so please give up that whole I don't give head thing. But anyways here is one that will definitely turn a guy on. Suck on his finger. But in your case it would be kinda mean since its misleading him to think that he might get head rofl