Should I lose my virginity to him?

I knew these kinds of guys in high school.

Chances are, if you go to bed with this guy, you will probably regret it. This is the kind of guy who learns guitar to get girls in bed, and it works for him. Plus, you said he's a jerk ( no surprise there ).

The fact that you know he's been to bed with many girls probably means that he's in the habit of telling people about it, to feed his ego. This is typical jerk behavior.

If you weren't a virgin, I'd say go for it. But, you are. You don't want to look back on your first time as being wasted because you gave it to a jerk who just looked at you as being just one more virgin that he deflowered.

I'm not saying that you have to be in love to have your first time. Just don't give it to a guy like that who doesn't deserve it.

There are plenty of guys who you could experience your first time with. Guys who aren't trying to get in bed with many girls, guys who aren't learning guitar as an aphrodisiac towards the inside of a girl's pants, guys are aren't jerks, and guys who aren't going to look at you as just one more girl that he got into bed with.

I've had many opportunities to be intimate with particular girls, but I didn't make it a habit to run wild with it. There's something to be said about having some self-control as a guy. Just because there are endless opportunities for a guy, it doesn't mean he has to always take advantage of it.

If you gave it to him, in the following days and weeks, you will probably notice that he isn't as attentive or nice. And the reason for that is because he got what he wanted from you.

As I'm writing this, I see that this posting of yours is 25 days old. I hope you made the decision that is right for you. . If you want a sympathetic ear ( so to speak ), my contact information is in my profile.

Good luck to you in whatever you choose. :-)

I know a lot of guy like that they are nice and seem good but they want something else. You don't know if he is a jerk for sure so why don't you give him a test. Ask him why you are different from the other girls. Also see if he is the same way with other girls. I know you want to do it with him but if he has done it b4 then he might have an std so even if he is the good person that you see then ask him to take the test. Because if he does that he has your best interest at mind

First off, you can have a fun life without sex. But you need to realize that if you hear stuff about him being a jerk that wants to have sex with every girl, then chances are, it's true. You shouldn't give in, just because you want to have sex. Wait and find the right one. Because chances are, soon after you have sex with him, you will break up, and you will regret it.

Don't lose your virginity in a friends-with-benefits situation. No matter how laid back you are about your sexuality, it will come back to haunt you. Especially because you aren't sure about this guy's character. 5 months isn't a very long friendship, so I'd suggest waiting it out until you find someone you're willing to date first, and then have sex.

Losing your virginity is the most memorable experience of your life you can't have a do-over so the question is "is this really the guy I want to lose it to" I'm not saying it should be all candles and roses but it should at least be with someone that you won't regret. You've waited this long so what's the rush into losing it to a so called "jerk" Especially if he gets mad when you turn him down because if he does that then that shows how he really cares about your feelings and from the sounds of it he doesn't care at all My advice to you is give it to someone who is worthy of it!

IF you are aware that he might be a jerk, and you want to have sex with him to have your first time it sounds like you have already made up your mind. Keep in mind that him asking you to hang out is probably his way of getting you to have sex with him. Just make sure it's what you want to do, and be careful. Good Luck.