My fiance of four years broke up with me. He broke up with me because I told a whopper of a lie. I'm still praying that we get back together. Currently, he's not talking to me, though :( We always had amazing sex together - and very often. I never denied him sex for four years. He loved how I was in bed, and I know that for a fact. His previous girlfriends would constantly deny him sex, and make him feel bad about it. Just to make this clear: I never cheated on him. I've always been faithful. Basically, my question is to the guys: if a girl you've loved for four years is great in bed/perfectly compatible for you, could this be critical in salvaging our relationship? Or does it not matter enough to make him want to come back to me? I really want us to end up back together, but I'm just not sure how much of a factor our great sex-life is ... Thanks!
Update: He took me back, and gave me another chance! I'm ever-so grateful, to say the least. Hopefully, this difficult experience will make us stronger than ever :) Thanks, everyone, for all of your input! 10 months ago
Great sex isn't enough to last a relationship past 4 years, so you need something else too. Your question is "Is great sex enough to pull you back into a four year relationship?" My answer is no.
If I left a 4 year relationship, then I'd need more reasons than just "she was great in bed" to come back.
What was the whopper of a lie you told? I'm sure he believes its true, and you recanting it now won't change that, because that just looks like you're trying to get him back.
If you were just withheld information until you thought the relationship could handle it, everyone does that; I would expect it. If you ran a scam on me, though, violated my confidence, or took advantage of my good nature, we're done.
In any event, I would have to forgive you, and you can't f*ck forgiveness into someone.
It depends on how bad the betrayal of trust was. Sex might get him to come back around, but if the trust is gone, then sex is the ONLY thing that he'll come around for, and to me that would be worse than loosing your boyfriend.
Well considering he broke up with you because of a lie you told, I seriously doubt sex alone would be enough to salvage a relationship. Of course if he accepts sex from you, then the possibility gets a little better for you.
But I'd just have to assume that the only way you'd get back together was if he felt he could trust you again. Sex won't help or harm anything, probably.
He'll probly come back to you after he cools off. I don't think the vast majority of guys would totally walk away from a relationship like that over just one thing.
Just to clarify, when I said "...a relationship like that..." I meant a 4 year good-term relationship, not just a relationship that had good sex - 10 months ago
Hi there - first off, I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Having gone through the same thing, I completely sympathize with you. I just went through the toughest two months of my life! Fortunately, we're getting through things, although, it hasn't been easy, and it has been a very, VERY slow process. I have to admit, I bought an e-book on how to get back with your ex, and believe it or not, it had THE most helpful advice! I was soooo skeptical, too. I used the - 9 months ago
He'll probably come back because the sex is great...or maybe not. The real questions is did you have enough outside the bedroom to make him want to take YOU back and just not try to come around for a quick fix.
True - he just needed time to cool off, and re-evaluate our relationship. Obviously, our sex life wasn't the only great thing we had between us, but it certainly plays an important part in a relationship. ***We're back together now :) - 10 months ago
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