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Were you scared your first time?

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Puerto-Rican-Bre10 (Age:Under 18)     When: More than a year ago
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I'm scared to lose my virginity but I think I want to lose it to this boy that I love more than anything, but I don't know what happens if we break up. I'm CONFUSED!

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Well, break-ups do happen, and there's nothing that can stop that. All you can do is do what you feel like you want to do with him, and hope that it works out. Life is a gamble, and you just have to take chances sometimes.
But only do it if you really want to.
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Answerer And yes I was a little nervous the first time, but I got through it, and it was nice! - 5 months ago
 

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MsVirginChica
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MsVirginChica (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I'm in the same situation and all I can tell you is to talk to him about your fears, doubts and worries about doing it with him and talk about it as often as you can. He will say things like "I'm not going to leave you and I promise I'll stop". This is where your trust for him kicks in. If you don't trust him when he says stuff like that then it's not a good idea. If he really loves you he will respect your decision and try hard to understand. My boyfriend said that if I changed my mind that we could stop before or during ( after doesn't really matter because it's done and over with ) but I trust him and I talk to him about it often. I'm ready but scared too and if you are not relaxed when and if it does happen it won't be something you will like or even want to do again. Hope it helps !!
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ladyredbone
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ladyredbone (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Make sure that it's really love before you decide to do it.
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baby-girl
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baby-girl (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
You should wait for the right time and when it comes, you will know but if you rush it you might lose everything. Trust me you will know cause you will both feel it. But if he rushes you tell him to wait for you to be ready and if he doesn't then he is a jerk and it means he is not the right one.
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AnnieMurphy
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AnnieMurphy (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Do not do it!!!! If he wants to!!! You have all the time in the world to find the right guy and I loved my boyfriend more then anything but right after you do it there might be like "I don't want her anymore" I would just wait, trust me he will like you more if you do. I made the mistake of doing it and I don't know you but you shouldn't have to go through making the worst mistake you could possibly make at such a young age. Just wait and see what happens you don't want anything to go wrong so just don't do it yet!!!!
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tleecam
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tleecam (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Don't lose it to some one your scared and confused about. I lost it to someone I was not sure about and it end up hurting me, to the point I did things I never dreamed I was doing. Until my bff made me stop this behavior. Wait if not for marriage then for your first love. You got your whole lif ahead of you don't rush this descion. Go to a free clinic and both of you get free condoms and get tested. SAFE SEX OR NO SEX.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Don't lose it someone you are not sure of. Wait till marriage. You will regret it if you have sex with him.
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Jennifer
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Jennifer (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
Don't Do It. Wait. If you have to ask if you should than you shouldn't. When it is the right time you will not be wondering if it's the right time. It is not something you can take back.
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crazngirl
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crazngirl (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
That's the same thing happened to me and that's why I ask my boyfriend all the time. Well most of the time, does he really love me and wants to be with me. I'm so scared to lose him too. That's the only reason why everytime we have problems- arguing,fighting, whatever it is I'll still keep him.
But you should let your first time be special and make sure your ready and it's not something you'll regret in the future.
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