21 old virgin

It is in no way a bad thing. I applaud males who choose to hold out on sex. Its a very rare and awesome find. Sex is a big deal and shouldn't be taken lightly. So good for you! Don't be ashamed of it either.

Nope. You're still cool to me :) I'll be twenty soon as have yet to have sex. It's something I'm proud of. You should be too!

i don't htink any less o a guy who is a virgin. I think it's a good thing that I know he may not have slept with every girl out on the street. I'm more conservative when it comes to sex and the whole idea. some girls are different. and well, just find the right girl to lose it too, that's the most important thing.

will you marry me? I'm not that into sex either! if I met you-- I would seriously marry you in a second

Marry me? its great to know that there are some guys who do believe sex is a big deal! you just made my night-

There is nothing wrong with you at all.

not at al! good for you- you aren't shallow! :)

We need more of you in this society. Waiting until marriage shows self control, and suggests you can hold back very strong urges. Now, the benefit of being one is, if you like this type of girl, you can have some of the greatest girls out there, virgin, conservative, goal oriented, real about life, essentially marriage material... It's great (I'm a virign too).

As for your status, I would rank virgins as being at the top as far as wholesomeness, and likeliness to have a no divorce marriage...

I wish I were you.

Being a Virgin just seems pure to me. I remember when it was all about the video games, books, sports, etc.

Many woman take pride in taking a man's virginity for some reason. xD

Telling this to some woman can make you a wanted man, just make sure you lose it to someone you love. Trust me on that, its completely worth it!

I'm 21 and still a virgin, I know how you feel man.

Just relax, it's perfectly normal and you shouldn't think negative about being a virgin. Some girls might look at you differently, and some might not. What matters is how you view it, not them.

It's not a bad thing. I was a virgin until about 24. I certainly wanted to have sex, just didn't come across a girl I wanted to be with. Don't worry at this point, I can certainly understand you wanting to experience it, but it will come in time. Find a good girlfriend first and then you will find that you will enjoy making love, if not strictly for the physical pleasure, for the feeling of connecting with another human on a level you have never felt. It really does bring you closer to someone than anything else, but it needs to be the right girl to get that level of connection.

It's not a bad thing at all - sex is serious, and should be saved for someone you really care about.

Good for you. I waited until marriage because I also thought sex was a big deal. 7 years and 2.5 kids later I am glad that I did. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age. In fact, it shows that you have respect for yourself and that you value relationships and don't think sex is a casual thing that should be done with just anyone. Another thing, nobody is going to know if you are virgin or not unless you tell them.

I just ran some statistics from General Social Survey data, and among individuals who have ever been married, those who think that sex before marriage is never wrong are 44.7% more likely to have experience divorce than those who think that sex before marriage is always wrong. 41.9% of individuals who felt that sex before marriage was always wrong had experienced divorce compared to 51.1% of individuals who thought it was never wrong. So your attitude towards sex is correlated with a better probability of having a long-term successful relationship.