So, I've known my best friend for about 7 years now and he's wonderful! I love him to death. My problem is that he "thinks he's gay" He's had a boyfriend before, but he's always telling me he loves me. And he want to try having sex with me to see what it's like. He never has a problem talking dirty to me or anything. I would absolutely LOVE to have sex with him. But is it a good idea? I'm afraid that he might not enjoy it because he really is gay. Should I go along with it?
It's not a really bad idea. You've known him for 7 years, so, there's a deep trust there. Plus you know he's safe, right? If I were the guy, I'd go for it if she asked me. So just try it and see what happens. :-)
Well I was kinda in your spot as well. My best friend of 5 years is gay and to tell you the truth I'm glad that I didn't date him or go with him like everyone thought we would the reason is if you do that and it turns out that he is gay. It could feel weird being around him since you guys did that. I'm sure if he "thinks" he is. Its more than likely he is gay. And I think all you should do is be his friend and be there for him. I did it. And now me and him are closer than ever and I lost my feelings that I had for him. Well in that way. And now I just love him as an awesome friend.
This is a hard question. Kinda like a jerry seinfeld/Elaine relationship. They slept together to see what it would be like. I say if you are comfortable with it then go for it. Maybe he is just confused and this will help him out. If you love him and he is your best friend then you are not just doing it with just anyone. Its kinda nice you guys can trust one another enough to talk about it. You are lucky to have him and the friendship.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would wear nice clothes nothing like work clothes. I would pick her up at her house at the time we agreed on. We would then go to a nice restaurant to have a nice dinner. Then we would go walking through the park or go to a nice place to sit and talk to get to know each other better. Then after the date was over I would take her home and not get a kiss unless we both agreed on it.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Whatever it is that she wanted to know. I'm not a shy person. If there's something she wanted to know but wouldn't ask and I picked up on it then I would just tell her everything about me that there is to know.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
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