How do I give an amazing BJ?

Stroke harder than you would normally. Most girls are too soft, but try looking for feedback. You'll see him more excited and his balls getting a bit upward, of course, he call also just tell you. But you'll figure it out easily after some time. No, don't keep quiet - talk dirty to him and moan. I think you can learn a lot more from this guide called jacks blowjob lessons --> link

Step number 1 before your number 1.listen to your man's body language. I've heard women get mad at guys before they complain about a girl's oral technique.figuring a guy should just be glad she is down there. But if a man was performing oral on a woman.she would expect a performance worth the academy award. So allow feedback from your man. You will be glad you did.

The rest of these details I'll leave to a woman to explain.and I look forward to reading the answers.hehe.

Watch some porn that has lots of blow jobs in it to pick up some techniques, tricks and sounds. As far as not hurting his feelings, just make lots moaning noises when he cums and he won't care where you aim it.

You should just stop having premature sex with guys or else you will be seen as a sex object, and that will just destroy your personality.

Don't be afraid to be quite rough. A guy's cock isn't fragile, its pretty tough. When you first start, pay a lot of attention to the head with your tongue and lips. Massage and squeeze his balls with your fingers. Use eye contact-watch your guy's face, act as if he's the most important guy in the world. Once you've got a rhythm going, settle down to a steady pumping action, mouthing his foreskin as far back down his cock as you can in a firm, tight action. Pause occasionally, and go back to teasing the head again. Don't let it all get too wet and lube'd up. If there's no friction on his cockhead it will take him ages to cum-you'll get tired and he'll get fed up.

I like to circle the head of my husband penis, and then use my tongue and lips going up and down the shaft. And I love it when he cums in my mouth. The first time I let him do it he was so surprised. He told me he was ready, and I kept on sucking. I don't mind it at all. I feel it it something special I can do for him, that makes him very happy.

Lots of hands as well as mouth works for me. Licking up and down the shaft, and plenty of eye contact. I like teeth myself, but not too much! You will most certainly know when he's coming. I actually like to finish by hand, so that's an option to keep it out of your mouth. Tell him right up front that you'll do this, but no swallowing or facial shots. Maybe tell him you want him to cum on your belly or something instead.

I can mostly answer 1, 2, 4, 5. As for 1, I prefer if the girl was to tease while doing it. It's a real turn on. 2, don't go to hard or not soft, to hard just kinda, well you know. And if it's to soft, no point! 4, you should be avoiding teeth, unless he likes it. So you might have to try that one out. 5, I would prefer a girl that moans. Once again, the moaning is a turn on.

I was really nervous before giving my first blowjob too but I have plenty experience now and hope I can give you a decent answer :)
First of all be really confident, don't hesitate, use both your mouth and your hands. Don't stroke too hard so it hurts him but put a good amount of pressure on him. You won't grind your teeth on him... it never happens.
You will know when he is coming because he will become very hard and contract.
Avoid biting or pulling his foreskin down too much
You can moan or tell him how much you like what your doing if you feel comfortable
Swallowing isn't that bad... its over really quickly aswel but if you don't want it too hapen then just be honest and after the mind blowing blowjob you have given I'm sure he will be fine ;) lol
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1. Usually I suck my boyfriend's head like its a straw and I let my tongue go all around it while I massage his balls

2. However hard or soft he prefers it

2 (again. ) suck your lips in

3. If he won't tell you, his reaction will give it away

4. AVOID TEETH

5. Guys don't really like when you talk to them, unless you're talking dirty

6. If he's horny enough, he might not care so much about whether you swallow or want it in your face. If he doesn't like it, that's his problem

One trick - without taking it all in your mouth, just rub your tongue up and down the underside. You should actually detect a sort of softer spot which tends to be very sensitive. Some guys will come so quickly when you hit it right! And it is easier to keep your teeth out of the way, since he is not entirely in your mouth. (also great for guys with very large penises). Alternate between having him in your mouth entirely, then with the tongue flicking the soft spot. Also use both hands. And some guys seem to like having their stomach caressed as well. I think the stroking question comes down to a matter of individual preference - just ask him - 'is that too hard, too soft? '

When he starts to come, you'll feel a little jerk first and should have time to respond. I don't think most guys will assume the partner will swallow and they might warn you off. They are more likely to expect you to NOT swallow by default (but if you are worried, ask for a little warming beforehand). Also, most guys will not come on your face - also considered rude unless specially requested.