Alright, I've never been kissed, I'm interested in guys, but I'm questioning my sexuality. Ok, for some reason, I have the ability to look at people, and "feel" what they do. Like if they smile, I can "feel" the smile inside, even though I'm not smiling. (i hope this makes sense). Alright, the real question: I mostly get these feelings when I'm around girls (because I'm a girl and I can relate to the same feelings and such), but if I see two girls that are together kissing, I feel it. Does it make me gay or is it just that I'm over thinking too much?
Because if I see a girls lips that I think are attractive and I want to kiss. Sometimes if I say "yeah, I want to kiss her", and accept the feeling, it goes away. But if I think about it or try not to think of it, I feel it. Does anyone know what's up or what? If you need any more details on the "feelings" thing, then ask please!
Well I'm not a female so I don't entirely know but those "feelings" are what's called empathy when you feel what others feel and from your explanation I can tell you have a strong sense of empathy I also have a strong sense of empathy (some times overly so as I get the same feelings when I see any couple).
so I think you may be over thinking but you never know so I say just ask yourself if the thought of being with a girl (in a lover since) excites you if it does then you may want to explore your preference.
Hope this helps you out. Once again I'm not a female but I do have those same "feelings" and I have been dumped by a girl for another girl several... oh hell who am I kidding a lot of times (sad but true lol)
I don't think I can be with a girl in a lover type of way. I think I can be with a guy, I'm just afraid of being in a relationship cause I'm inexperienced. Thanks for the help though! - 7 months ago
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I think at least I don't (in a lover sense. I think about what it would be like, I don't think it excites me.? ). I don't know. I'm just scared that I'll get into a relationship with a guy and hurt him just like you got hurt, and I'm sorry about that! - 7 months ago
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It's no prob it no longer hurts my heart just my ego. It makes me think that I'm feminine or something but anyway love knows no gender one of my best friends was straight till she met my ex (yes she dumped me 4 her) now they live happily together *sigh* - 7 months ago
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