There is this guy I like and I pay attention to him all the time, so I keep my eye on him. though, I think I might also be bisexual (or possibly gay and not know it which I'm really afraid of). so, I was looking over at my crush and in between us was a girl. I really didn't find her attractive (she had pretty hair but that was it). so, I felt this need to kiss this girl just by looking at her lips, and then I looked to the guy I liked and I still liked him. but then I felt really hot all over and only if I thought of the girl, but I'm NOT attracted to her. then later I sat next to her again, and I didn't feel anything. I don't know why, but I just feel the need to kiss girls. but I also have a high level of empathy and I can (feel other things people feel, etc., etc.). so, I don't know if I'm actually gay or if I'm just feeling things. I want to try to be in a relationship with a guy but I'm just scared that I won't feel anything. I also have this feeling that I might like being with a girl more even though I find guys a little more attractive. I dunno, can anyone help at all?
Update: Oh, and there is this other girl that I might have a "girl crush" on, and I just feel nervous and shaky. I don't know if that makes a differences.
6 months ago
You might be BI, or you might just be CURIOUS. If you think you might actually be gay then you should try and figure out if you are displaying other gay characteristics (do you find yourself aroused by attractive women in general or just the ones you know and /or admire for nonphysical reasons? ). You may not be able to fully understand how you really feel until you explore at least one side.
I think I do get aroused by attractive women "Shrugs". It spontaneously happens when I see an attractive woman on tv (her her boobs or something, etc. ). I don't know. "shrugs" I guess I do admire some girls for certain traits, but its usually their figure. - 6 months ago
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Do you get aroused by guys figures too? - 6 months ago
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I get aroused when I think of doing it with a guy, but just by looking at a guy, no. - 6 months ago
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