Is it ok to have sex with a 45 year old woman if you're 23 years old?

Older women are less sexually inhibited--they have gone through and rejected the "sex is for bad girls" b/s and do not apologize for what they want anymore. They are confident, know who they are and know what they want from life. This can make them very attractive to a mature and intelligent young man. And for the people who wonder why she'd want a younger man, some older femmes have sex drives that cannot be matched by the men their age and they may just be looking for something fun, casual and romantic. Because young guys are looking for the same thing it can work. Just realize that it may not be a long term deal--

And do not be ashamed--if you are mature enough to date an older woman then you should be man enough to be proud of it. Only in this country do people think older women lose their attractiveness as they grow older. In Europe the sexual maturity and beauty of a woman and beauty makes her more desirable to young males...

So go for it and if and when it ends, be grateful for the life lessons you can take from it!

Age is just a number. It shouldn't matter. If you care about the person, or even if you just want to have sex. I don't think there is anything wrong with it.

haha sure. Hey, if you got those feelings go for it.

its okay. but kind of gross.

I don't see a problem with it. Its what ever makes you both happy age is only a number. Who cares what other people think it should be just between you and her!

no its not ok because that sends out a bad image for you and her .Plus that makes her a cougar and you will ruin her chances of finding another guy if you and her don't work out.You are 25-30 right? you can get all the girls you want but its best if you don't have sex with a 45 year old woman.

hahahhahahhahahhahahhahahahhahahahhahaha. NO! unless you wanna be the new demi moore and ashton kutcher.

if you really like her then yes it is o.k

if it feels right

Actually, I understand where you are coming from - you are looking for a teacher to show you about sex - because you feel an other woman will have more patience and be more gentle with you. But the age difference is too great! Imagine - as women age so does their skin texture, boob sag (not perky anymore), you look more like their child than their lover - and if she has children from a previous relationship - the children will resent you and her both. The other factor to remember - is that for a man or a woman as they grow older so does their level of activity. Whereas if you only look at the sexual area - a woman in her 40's has a much higher sex drive (not all women do by the way) - a lot of this has to do with the fact that most women have had a hysterectomy or a tubaligation so that they can't get pregnant - therefore the sex would be more enjoyable. Personally, as a woman 45 years old - dating a 64 year old - I know what I'm talking about - as well as having parents that are 15 years apart Mom 70 - Dad - 85. Good luck - but do yourself a favor - date women no older than 6 years older than you.

If he isn't married and has no girlfriend, I see nothing wrong with it.

Damn, I hope at 45 I can still get 23 year old ass!

Hey you're both consenting adults it's completely up to you.......remember age is only a number!

Listen Hunnie!!!! Its your decision!!! If you are into him, GO for it.....By all means!!!! Age ain't nothing but a number once your into your 20's!!!! The love of my life is 37 and I am 26 I never thought that I could be sooo into an older man, but in all honesty if you can have a relationship, friendship with a older Man, it speaks highly of you!!! For you have to be a mature Young Lady to have things in common with someone that is 45! N he must be a hottie!!!! Some of them older ones are looking better and better with age...Huh? Go for it Ma!!

I really don't see a problem with that, you're both consenting adults and if you find each other attractive and want to have sex, what's the big deal?

On the contrary to what some youngsters here might think, people have sex at all ages and at 45 a woman can be VERY attractive! ;-)

So if you like her, who cares if she's 45? Go for it!

She must be one good-looking cougar/ MILF, it's all legal, so it's up to you to decide if it's O.K. or not.

I don't think so that's a little more than twice your age don't do it

If you think she's hot why not?

I agree it's kinda nasty. But as you get older you find that age is just a number and does not make much of a difference if you really like someone.

I personaly would not consider someone more than 10 years older due to the difference in emotional growth.

Ew! All I've got to say. EW!

She's old enough to be your mom. I would never do it but if that's what you are into then so be it!!!

I don't think it's nasty. Age ain't nothin but a number the government puts on you so they can control what you do. It's just showing how long you've been here. Just because she's older than you, if you love her or really like her, it shouldn't matter.

Yes if you like old meat then you like old meat- if you like young meat then you like young meat- as long as you don't think anything is wrong.

I agree, nasty. Why would you wanna do that?! Also depends on what it is you guys have I guess.

It's nasty

go for it

Well, your age difference is less than the age difference between my parents, so perhaps I'm a bit biased :) but go for it! Nothing wrong with what you're doing at all!

It's about what you and her want. If you both wanna have sex, then yes it's ok.

Yes but an on-going relationship is unlikely. Enjoy.

If you do you will have the best sex of your life no joke, I had an older woman once and oh man they are like a fine wine they only get better with age, unless they are like old old. But 45 go for it.

listen man the second girl I was with was 32 and I was 19. It was fantastic! She showed me the ropes and she liked me a lot. I ditched her though because it was kinda hard being 19 and bringing a 32 year old around all ur buddies. She was good looking don't get me wrong and she cooked me dinner and shit when I came over to her place for the night. And on the upside she could squirt and that totally freaked me out till I thought about later that day! Dude go for it Having sex with a 45 year old is like riding a moped. its fun to do BUT don't tell your buddies about it! hehe

Easy killer. You were jail bait for her just 5-6 years ago. Why doesn't she like men her age? I'm just saying (not judging, by the way), cougars can tend to be pretty vicious.

It's definitely okay. Just make sure everyone is safe.

No problem, go ahead action.

What do you mean nasty.. I love older women