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Public erection problem?

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HeAdCasE (Age:30 to 35)     When: Over a year ago
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Ok, so this new guy that I am dating says that he doesn't like to show any affection in public, because getting close to me like that gives him an instant erection. Ok, sure, I guess, but I've never had a guy say that to me in the past. And his lack of affectionate interest in public makes me feel like we're just friends.

I mean there is the odd hand holding, and hugs, and a kiss or two if I initiate it. But seriously he keeps his distance like I've got the plague sometimes. WTF.


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  • smith2267
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    Over a year ago
    Yeah, that sounds weird.
    Popping a boner in public is slightly embarrassing, but it's not the end of the world. Unless you're around kids or nuns or something. That would be a "crawl under a rock and die" moment.
    But if you're with your girlfriend and around adults, what the hell. We all know what a penis looks like.
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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I got one at a public pool once, with a female friend. I would rather it hadn't happened, but oh well, what can you do?
  • ilovelegs
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    Over a year ago
    I read what the other 3 guys said before me and I totally disagree. I never heard of a guy being so touchy and edgy like that and I talk with a LOT of guys and girls and see them in action. If he actually dislikes showing affection in public then he should tell you but a guy like that is going to be lukewarm at best when with you in private. Usually, in public it's the other way around because when a guy has to be worried about getting an erection he's more unlikely to get one, not more likely. Fortunately, guys have more control of himself than that otherwise something is wrong like their minds are totally centered on sex. Of course maybe an occasional one, but not to the point that it poses a problem like you mentioned. If guys couldn't control themselves better than that they'd surely made special clothes to totally hide such things and still look nice. lol! Tell him to wear a jock strap or w/e. I think you need to look behind his problem to see if for some odd reason he's wanting to hide being affectionate with you in front of other people. It is odd and maybe it's him that has the plague and is trying not to give it to you. You should be able to do simple affectionate things in public without him going ape. Call his bluff and see what happens. If he actually has that problem then ask him to wear more appropriate under clothing.
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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I meant to say thanks girl. lol! Whatever made me say man when your user name has chic in it. haha!
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Aww thanks man!
    • Over a year ago
      Anyone ever told you that you are awesome at advice? Jesus Christ man, you're good. Guess that's why you are a level 10
  • FDRunner
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    Over a year ago
    Men are easily excited, including in public, when they get too close to a women they are attracted to. He may be telling the truth but at the same time he may be using it as a reason not to have PDA. Understand, many people don't care for PDA...it's a personal taste. Depending on how long you have been with your man it may be something you two need to balance out or work on.

    I have never been too affectionate with my girlfriends in public because I feel it's too personal to do such things in public. Also, depending on what you're doing men will get aroused...remember we can't control that guy down there ;)
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  • Eamzy
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    Over a year ago
    Yer don't most guys get an erection after nice long kisses in public? You just have to learn to hide it really... It usually hurts if you push your erection down so you can't really do that but what you can do is put it so that it is facing up towards your belly button and then usually the waist of your trousers will stop it from looking obvious because it will hold it up and so there won't be a lump in your trousers.
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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Yer it goes above the waist but that doesn't mean you have a lump in your t shirt as it is so close to your body
    • Over a year ago
      I'm not that much longer than average, but I know I'd stick out above my waistband if I tried that...I'm sure plenty of guys would.
    • Over a year ago
      LOL, yeah, but there will be one in your shirt....
  • palek
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    Over a year ago
    I wouldn't be able to stand it. Maybe over time you could get used to it, or maybe find an an aphrodisiac and slip it into his food on a regular basis. lol
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