I LOVE PUBIC HAIR!!!!! Trim yes. Bare no. Sorry, I don't fantasize about pre-pubescent girls. It was a powerful experience for me the first time I got my hands down a girls pants and felt her bush...mmmm. I love the look, touch, and smell of a clean natural woman.
Right on! I think we're a fierce minority sometimes...I just simply don't get any of the arguments for going bare. To me, none of it make no sense. Not a one! Heck the high-maintenance it takes combined with the prickly cactus 5 o'clock shadow is enough for me to wonder what all the fuss is about. I mean can you honestly say the mons pubus is available for quickies and spontaneous encounters at any time if the woman is between her grooming regime? The visual alone is a MAJOR turn-off for me. - 3 months ago
Unless he's from the 70's or 80's, nope. You know how you'd look at the music and clothing to understand what's hot in an era? Look at the porn nowadays, no pubic hair.
That's what I thought but some girls at my school said it was nasty and unhealthy to shave it so I wanted to hear a guy's point of view. - 6 months ago
Well If you start shaving it, it becomes very high maintenance. You have to shave it practically every day and it itches like a bitch. You can get lazer hair removal called a Brazilian, but you have to get it done multiple times to keep it off.
I find that most guys don't like pubic hair, they say that no pubic hair enhances sex and intimacy - it's easier for guys to perform oral on their girl. I wouldn't stress too much unless you are really head over heels for a guy. Till then just keep it well trimmed.
I respectfully and politely disagree on the concept that it enhances sex and intimacy to be bare -- and especially that it's easier for a guy to perform oral... There's no hair on the clit or where any of the sex organs are involved. I think the shaving thing - like razor wire tattoos, are as transitory as bell bottom jeans were in the 70's. People are heading for an organic revolution and natural will soon be the new fad. Well a trimmed revolution, anyway! - 3 months ago
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Living in NYC, an ideal would be a walk in Central Park, then rent a row boat and we'd go around the lake for a while that seems fun and that would give us time to get to know each other 2. Then eat at my FAVORITE sushi place (MATSU- it is great) If she likes sushi. Dress causal blue jeans, t-shirt maybe a short sleeve button down over it. End a walk down street semi-silent, kiss on cheek bye.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My personality,amazing taste in food, (MATSU is really great!!), and just random stuff about me. My goals for a first date would be to just have fun and let you know who I am.
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