How do you initiate sex?

By talking to him about it personally cause if he the one you will know

Do the two of you ever get into serious kissing (the hot and heavy kind - tongues, etc.? ). If you do, does it lead to any petting or fondling of your breasts etc.? If it does, next time, initiate heavy petting (reach down and massage his crotch) and hopefully he will take the lead and continue on from there. You may need to encourage him with words and actions. If he fondles your breast, take your shirt and bra off yourself and pull his face to your nipples, etc. If you like what he is doing, encourage him further by saying things like: "Oh yes, that feels sooooo good. " or "Flick it with your tongue. " Again, if you want to go further and he hasn't picked up on the message (some of us are a little dim-witted), don't be afraid to make a bolder move. If you get to the point of some heavy petting, pull off your own pants/raise your skirt up and again, take his hand or face and place it where you want it There is nothing wrong with women being aggressive in bed. Once you have gotten into the "groove" with him a couple of times, if he is still not initiating on his own, tell him that you like it and feel more desired when HE is the aggressor. Have fun!

The next time you are alone together tell him you have a surprise for him so just lay back and enjoy! Then slowly start to undress him and play with him after this he will most likely follow the lead.

I suggest that when you are next alone, sitting next to him that you casually lay your hand on his upper leg. Gradually move it up until you are touching his **:)**. You will soon notice if it is interesting him. If it gets bigger, take a hold of it. Things should take off from there. Good luck

Coming from a girl, this is what I do. Might not be the best technique but it hasn't failed me yet. If you're not already kissing then try kissing him. Guys love when you do the first move, because if he's shy with you it most likely means he doesn't want to be turned down. So if you make the move he might open up a bit more. Once you're kissing, try the heavy petting thing that bigguns was talking about, then feel his crotch. If it's hard just whisper in his ear, "Do you want to" He will be taken off guard and wondering what you're talking about. Just grab it harder and ask again. Usually it will take off right from there. Not saying it will 100% work. But I'm pretty straight forward and I've gotten laid a lot by doing that.