My Boyfriend right now only slept with me and that I find very sexy! Its a special bond we share.I feel special! I would be much more attracted to the guy who slept with one rather than the 25.
I would think that he's very romantic or very shy, but I would definitely feel more attracted to the guy that only slept with one girl that the guy that slept with 25, because then I would feel more special
If I know he's had sex with like 25 girls. Then I won't be attracted to him. Because I will see that he uses sex as just a causal thing. And that he will hook up with just anyone. And with a guy that sleeps with 1 girl. I will be attracted more because I will know that he takes sex more seriously. And uses it when he is sure he likes a girl and hopefully doesn't pressure them to do it.
The fact that you have only been with 1 person isn't really a turn off unless you have only been with that one person ONE time. One of my exes had only had sex once when we met and was very inexperienced and I'll admit it was a bit of a turn off. BUT it turned out for the best because he was open to learning so many new things and it was simply about pleasing me and this made him a great lover. SO. In the beginning it made me a little hesitant, but in the end it was for the better!
If I found out that my guy has only slept with 1 person, I think I'd be a bit relieved. It really shows that he doesn't make sex a huge priority. I don't think that any woman would be less attracted by knowing that, I think it would only make the bond stronger.
If I found out this guy has slept with 25 people, I would be more hesitant, I wouldn't want to be just another good f*** and that's it. Ya know? So I don't think a ton of girls would be more attracted, but that's just my opinion
If I found out a potential partner has only been with one other person I look at it as an opportunity to perhaps teach him something new. On some level I think I do find it more attractive only because I would assume he doesn't treat sex like a numbers game. It seems more, I don't know, sincere?
If I found out a potential partner has been with 25 people then I hope he knows what he's doing and would hope I'm just not another number. I would be more hesitant to sleep with him- not less attracted.
That said I think it's rare for men give accurate numbers which is why I don't bother asking or trying to find out. I just want to know whoever I'm with is into me and I'm more than a fling.
I don't think that piece of information by itself would change whether I was attracted or not. Attraction, in my experience is more an energy, a dynamic between two people.
A guy who has slept with only one person might have slept with that one person 50 times and a guy who has slept with 25 people might have only had one night stands. Numbers tell you very little about what he is like or even how good he is in bed. So in my opinion, numbers means a lot less than how the experiences effected him/what he learned about himself and women and how that effects the way he is with me. In the end, whether he's had one relationship or 25, I think his personality will be much more important as to whether I'm sexually interested or not, and what I'm sexually interested in.
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