If a guy doesn't like boobs, is he gay or just really weird?

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I have a friend and he doesn't like boobs at all. He says he prefers flat-chested girls. (I thought that it's just an excuse) He doesn't watch p*rn. Guys like him are actually my type but I just find him weird for hating boobs. He said that it's irritating how women show off their boobs. I also find boobs attractive and amazing. And I'm not a lesbian! I just find it attractive. So, is he gay or just really weird? I really like him but the thought of him being gay is just really...ugh...disappointing! I also hate my boobs now! I want them to be flat.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Only one thing makes a man gay: him being sexually attracted by guys to the point where he only wants to have sex with guys.

People have weird preferences and fetishes, and this really isn't the weirdest out of the bunch. The dude just doesn't like boobs and the way girls show them off to make guys drool. Maybe he doesn't want to be a sheep in the herd, I don't know. But don't go around judging other people's sexuality just because of little things like this. Maybe he's an ass/hips/legs/feet man instead. Who knows. And I doubt that he doesn't watch p*rn. Sure, it's possible, but most guys who actually flat out tell you that they don't watch p*rn are probably only doing it to impress you.

So it seems to me like he just doesn't want to be like "all the other guys", especially since he worded his arguments in such a weird way.

But hey, just to point out a thing. You said you like boobs, and that you aren't a lesbian. So why think he's gay just for not liking boobs? He could use that same argument against you, you know.

And lastly, don't hate your boobs just because ONE weird guy said he doesn't like them (especially if YOU like HIM). That'll only make you go crazy. I'm quite flat-chested myself, and when I was interested in this one guy, he told me that he likes larger boobs. I was pretty much devastated and I wished my body looked different just so I could please him. It made me so insecure. Not worth it at all, seriously. Don't take it to heart. Even though it might be a preference to him, if/when he finds the right girl (maybe you) and she just happens to have bigger boobs, if he's a good guy, he'll be able to completely overlook it. Don't worry about your body.

Kris85 · Accepted Answer

I don't think he is gay but it is definitely weird. I haven't met a guy yet in my life that doesn't like big boobs, let alone any boobs.

ArabianPwincess197 · Accepted Answer

not all guys like boobs he probably likes other aspects of a lady's body such as legs maybe he is a legs man and not a boob man

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Is he gay? I doubt it, but it's not impossible, just unlikely. He probably just has a preference.

As a Breast Man myself, I also struggle to understand these guys, but intellectually, I know they exist and that they like what they like, and I suppose that's okay (more for me!). I've definitely met a few guys who say the same as this guy: they are totally indifferent to boobs, and pay them little attention. I've also heard women complain about guys who paid little if any attention to their boobs.

Then again, I don't find feet particularly sexual, but there are men who think they are the sexiest part of a women's body, and there are women who feel the same way and only want guys who worship their feet. Maybe those guys find ME weird for liking boobs.

Different strokes for different folks. Don't let it bother you too much, and definitely don't let one guy's personal preferences change the way you think about your own body, because there are PLENTY of guys out there who love boobs and would like yours just the way they are.

Theguyoverthere · Accepted Answer

As a guy who lifts frequently I'll give you some feedback.

A lot of girls with really big boobs in the real world(not the media!) are really just fat girls with really saggy boobs. I get emails from girls who want to date me and they immediately mention their rack size in the first email and their pic is of them and they're obese.

Now personally, I like boobs, but a lot of guys are one or the other... boobs or butt. So he may be more of a butt guy. But this doesn't mean he likes men's butts. Personally, the size of a girl's boobs or butt shape does not matter to me all that much. I'd very much like a smaller boob size, it's perfectly fine. So I can see him liking flat chested girls as well.

I very much feel that our preferences in sexual tastes get embedded into us at a very early age. So he may have had an emotional experience with a girl or woman who was flat chested in early childhood.

ManThatKnewTooMuch · Answer

He's a small boob guy.  It's not weird, just human.  We all have different views on things.  As for hating boobs so much maybe it's his way of rebelling against the boob-culture here in America.  If that's the case then he's probably more indifferent to big boobs than anything.

BatDoc · Answer

It's just his preference. Some guys aren't boob guys.

I like boobs just as much as the next guy, but I don't like really big boobs. I prefer a good handful, but not much more. But again, that's just personal preference. I've dated girls with bigger boobs. It's not a big deal. If you like someone, then physical attributes take a back seat.

AustinMan · Answer

He's not gay or he wouldn't have a strong opinion either way, in my experience.  I like boobs but I like nipples more.  She can be any boob size but if she has big and/or long nipples and likes them played with roughly, I'm in heaven.

thetundrawolf · Answer

He probably wasn't breastfed.

In my opinion, breast milk is the thing that gives a child life. He yearns for it, hungers for it.

So when he gets it, no doubt in his little eyes he is getting life itself from a breast.

As he grows older, maybe there's something psychological that connects the two.

I was never breastfed, and actually, I don't really have much of an attraction to larger breasts.

But hating them, well, that's another story. Perhaps he is too modest. I wouldn't judge him too harshly.

tom-tom-traveler · Answer

I don't think he's bading. He may just not like well or moderately endowed women, but I have to agree with you that his attitude is a bit strange.

By the way, if that profile pic is really you... Maganda!

HandsomeRaj · Answer

There are women who aren't les but aren't really into the penis of a guy ;)

He likes' A cups or smaller - a choice and preference everyone has. Cause the general population likes big boobs doesn't mean everyone has to toe that line. A choice doesn't make him gay nor does not watching p*rn :)

You want your boobs to be flat cause he likes them that way? hmm his likes / dislikes sure go deep into you :)

Jonny_ · Answer

I personally don't think it's that weird, I do prefer girls with smaller boobs but it's just a preference and it doesn't mean that I don't like them. It just means I'd prefer a girl to look natural or proportionate to her size. I actually think it's weird that so many guys get so flustered over what is essentially fat and milk ducts...

DoctorSex · Answer

I'm a bum man, I couldn't give a flip about your chest, if you haven't to a bum and nice thighs then your very weird to me.

gonyr · Answer

He watches p*rn. 95.7% of guys who tell a girl they don't are just lying to make a better impression

In terms of looks, he probably thinks too much cleave age sit rashly and unattractive. Some guys prefer smaller boobs. I'm not one of them but everyone has preferences.

kheserthorpe · Answer

I like small boobs and am fine with flat chests. But I still like them.

It sounds more to me like he's not comfortable with women's bodies. It may not mean he's gay. But it probably means he'd be a pretty terrible partner.

I'd bet $20 breasts aren't his least favorite body part on women.

Tractorbeam · Answer

It's very strange for a hetero man to not like boobs at all. I've got a feeling that girls aren't his type,and he'd be more attracted to you if you had a cock.

kairon156 · Answer

I like boobs but I prefer smaller ones between A cup and large B cup. C cup is okay depending on it's shape and what not.

as for hating them maybe he's just fed up with how society views them and likes other things about women.

Moobacca · Answer

Yes, because any guy who doesn't meet your expectations has to be gay...

Dionysos · Answer

Liking small boobs myself, I can say that actively disliking boobs completely is strange in a male.   I wouldn't go as far as to say he's gay, just weird.

Kinstrome · Answer

If you can accept that finding boobs attractive doesn't make you a lesbian, why on earth do you think him not liking boobs makes him gay?

swagswagswag · Answer

Boobs are overrated, they're not a huge deal, so finding flat tits attractive don't really matter, a lot of guys do.

But the fact that he likes flat chests & doesn't watch p*rn is definitely a red, or should I say a rainbow colored flag

SixStringSeal · Answer

I watched this documentary on breast obsession. Apparently most countries actually don't even look at breasts as a sexual object. It's not a natural desire, it's more of a culturally ingrained one.

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

Does he like having sex with men? Then he is gay.  Otherwise, he's allowed to have preferences.

cavmanier · Answer

I don't understand that :o

DodgersGM · Answer

You're over thinking it. He simply stated a preference for small boobs...that in itself doesn't mean he hates them. And even if he did hate them it certainly wouldn't mean he's gay or weird. That's quite a leap to make on your part.

If a guy doesn't like boobs, is he gay or just really weird?

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