How do you feel when you have sex with your boyfriend and he doesn't finish?

Ive had sex 3 times, I'm 17. My boyfriend never finished, all 3 times. Actually though, my girl friends tell me their boyfriends didn't finish either their first few times.
Its because he was too nervous. Also, we were both new at sex and he didn't know how to pleasure me, so I wasn't into it and wasn't moaning or anything, which could be a buzz kill. Its actually a lot more common than you think haha, guys not finishing.

I have never actually had the problem of my man not finishing but to me it sounds like you need to do a couple things. First you and your girl really need to sit down and talk about what is and isn't appropriate sex talk. No one wants to hear shh, I'm never gonna get off, hurry up etc. If she's worried about making to much noise move it to the floor, if she's worried about her noises pillows work as a muffle! Turn some music on at least if you're gonna bother the roommates with noise then it be music instead of your sexual escapades! Lol! If you're having a hard time finishing after she gets off it's probably because when a woman gets really wet then her vagina will expand so take just a sec and "clean up" and jump back into it, that should help.

I would feel bad if a guy didn't finish (though its never actually happened). YOu shouldn't feel bad, though I wouldn't be surprised if you were disappointed!
It sounds like you are in a stressful situation. Your girlfriend seems to be putting a lot of pressure on you, but I don't think she realizes she's doing it she's just nervous about the situation as well. I think you should talk to her about whether there is somewhere else/some other time you can have sex because while you really like her, the situation is stressing you out. What are your other options? How much does it really matter if those other people heard? I think if this is the only situation you can have sex in, you need to at least communicate with your girlfriend about how to avoid them hearing while still being able to really enjoy your sexual encounters. Why not sometimes try oral sex or fingering/handjobs? They'll probably shake the bed less because you won't be moving as much. Also, when she says she is not going to cum, ASK HER if it is because she doesn't want to or if she does, what you can change/do to make it happen. You also need to find a way to tell her she's putting a lot of pressure on you when she tells you when to cum.
I can't really think of a really great way to tell her, its a bit awkward so it really depends on your relationship. You might want to mention it gently and seriously at another time, or you might want to make a half serious, lighthearted joke about it and see if she takes the hint. If it was me, id joke to the other person that it is their whispering that would get us caught not the movement noises. But like I said, it really depends on how your girlfriend would take something like that. Hope it all works out!

There has only been one time that my man didn't finish and I made sure that that never happen again I would finish him if I was done b4 him. A good bj is just what he needs when he has worked it out and got me off. I think that you shouldnt feel bad if you don't finish, really I was the one that felt bad. You took care of her so she should take care of you. I was in the same situation your in with having to be quite. I understand that it can be a total turn off sometimes when your are being told to shhh.
You should tell her you would like a bj after she gets off if you haven't hopefully she is up for that because I know that will get you off. Also you guys need to talk about where your having sex you need to find somewhere that you don't feel uncomfortable while having sex. Neither of you are able to really and fully enjoy sex when you have to be quite and worry all the time.
Hope that helped a little. Good Luck