So I like a guy who I work with. He is 22 and I am 18. He told me I was young and then I told him I'm 18. I guess he thought that I was younger. Well later that night we made out and he was on top of me in the back seats of his car and I moved him between my legs and then shortly after he froze and stopped I asked him if he was okay and he stayed froze for awhile. I didn't know what was wrong. Analyze this whole situation. What could have been the matter, was I a bad kisser or too young or did he think I wanted sex? I really didn't want sex and we made out for awhile in the front seats until I asked if we could in the back seats. I am confused. I liked him. Please interpret. I haven't talked to him since
The first time I ever made out with my ex while laying down he got off just from making out. He froze just like that and stopped. He was really embarrassed and didn't want to admit what happened. He probably thinks you saw it through his jeans or something and he is too embarrassed about it to come talk to you.
Maybe he was worried you were under 18 even though you said you were. No hook up is worth going to jail over, and guys can have a lot of fear about that. Especially if he did have sex with you and then you were 16 or something you might blackmail him or whatever. Just saying thoughts he might have had.
I have this feeling that he suddenly came too and then froze not knowing what to do and then becoming totally embarrassed that you might have suspected that. That's definitely a common thing when making out or giving oral because that's already happened to me too... embarrassingly enough. lol! Doing those things can be pretty sexy and stimulating. He just wasn't prepared for that and now isn't sure what to do since he knows he stayed froze too long trying to get his senses back. Since you like him you should be glad since he must find you very hot because that's the only time that will happen to a guy... when he'd doing stuff with a girl he thinks is hot,... a girlfriend, hook-up, etc. You should contact him and try to make fun of what happened and be like it wasn't me was it? lol! There's a small chance he thought you were getting ready to have sex and that movement was too fast for him. As far as the pad think as you said in one of your comments... possibly but I think a small chance. .
Exactly! My boyfriend had that happen a couple times with me during hook-ups before we started going together. I took it as a complement. - 9 months ago
Ohhh shoot I hope not! Lol. I mean of course not, but I was ending my period and had stopped him earlier from fingering me. I hope he didn't feel my pad. Tht was in the front seat tho. Sry if thts nasty lol. He prob felt it not sure tho. Would you realize it was a pad or would you b like wtf? I'm prob overexaggerating this whole situation but it scares me why he stopped randomly! - 9 months ago
I'm really not sure, I didn't give him a hj or anything. Most we did was dry hump and like Id push his bod into mine but I don't think he came from that lol - 9 months ago
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Hard to believe, but even just that can do it for some guys. Especially if he's really nervous. Other than that, I don't know . . . the freezing is weird. - 9 months ago
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