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Can you lose your virginity with a finger?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 7 months ago
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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and he likes to finger me all the time. In my head I'm technically still a virgin because he hasn't put his penis in my vagina. But I was wondering. Can you lose virginity with fingering?

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 6 months ago
Technically no. It's only losing it if you have intercourse. Just make sure you are protected when you do.
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ionlife
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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 7 months ago
Technically, you are a virgin if your hymen is intact but that can break from many things which are not even sexual. Spiritually, you are a virgin until you have intercourse with a man for the very first time.
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bigguns (Age:36 to 45)      When: 7 months ago
The old days a virgin was tested by her hymen being intact or not. Now? Ask Bill Clinton for the definition of what "is" is. Technically, yes, the penis must penetrate the hymen and virginity is lost. A penis, a tampon, a "sausage finger" (lol), whatever, can break the hymen so it is hard to tell nowadays if someone is a "real" virgin anymore. You have to have the penis inside the vagina (even just one plunge will do it) to be considered a non-virgin, but how much fun would that be?
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juan1992
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juan1992 (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
Well technically you haven't lost your virginity. The penis must go in the vagina and then you have lost it
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Jarett
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
Lol sounds like you're feeling guilty. Technically you're still a virgin.
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Question Asker Hahaha maybe a little bit but it feels good. - 7 months ago
Answerer Lol yeah, I totally understand. - 7 months ago
Question Asker Yeeea? =D - 7 months ago
Answerer Anytime you do something that you might think is wrong, but feels good, you have that two sided feeling. I've never been fingered personally :o) But of course we've all been in the same shoes as far as stuff like that. - 7 months ago
 

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oxLaurenxo
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oxLaurenxo (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
You dated him for a month and you already let him finger you?
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kiki-baby Yeah. Prude lol - 6 months ago
Question Asker So what? - 6 months ago
Answerer Haha. Sorry If it sounds like I'm trying to be rude, I'm not. I just think that's kind of weird that you would let a guy do all that after a month. Then again I can't really talk because I have friends that would do more than that in a week. I also have friends that won't even kiss a guy unless they have been dating longer than a month. - 6 months ago
Question Asker Ha yea it sounded pretty rude but yea I totally know what you mean...but I totally love my guy and I don't regret anything ive done with him. - 6 months ago

Men2008
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Men2008 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
You shouldn't be thinking about sex if you don't know the difference. Yes you are still a virgin.
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jaycexDA
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jaycexDA (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
You probably technically could if he has really big, fat fingers (sausage fingers).
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kiki-baby
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kiki-baby (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
You are still a virgin honey.
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Question Asker Hmmm yea I thought so =] - 7 months ago
 
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