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Have any of you guys had a bad oral job done?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 8 months ago
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Why do you consider it as bad? What went wrong? Or you don't consider any blow job done bad at all? Give me your thoughts on this. Because we women sometimes don't get feedback from our guy because they think it might hurt our feelings which might. I believe most of us want to please our guys but are afraid to ask did I do right or something like that or the guy might lie about it. Anyways help us improve and give us some thought on this!

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bigguns (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
Basically, ask yourself - did he come? If the answer is yes, mission accomplished. For thoughts on how to improve? I pasted most of the following from a previous answer of mine that got favorable reviews. Have fun and thanks for all your hard work:. Practice, Practice, Practice. Your thumb and fingers are a small, but good practice "tool" or buy a cheap dildo. First of all, a blow job is a replacement or a convenient pussy - warm, wet and soft. Start slow and stay slow and finish with a quicker pace by hand or mouth - your choice. A good technique for an average size (6-7 inches) is to simultaneously go down with your mouth while coming up with your hand and meeting your lips with your hand - then reverse. You actually suck on the down stroke and just let it slide out on the upstroke keeping the tongue in constant contact. As you progress with experience, the tongue can do wonderful things on both the up and down strokes (swirl around it, swab it with a big wet "fat" tongue - or make it hard and pointy and try to dig a groove into the underside of the penis with it) The simultaneous squeezing pressure of your hand will make it seem like you are sucking harder than you actually are or think you have to - it doesn't take much, but remember you are SUCKING on the penis. I never really understood why it is called a "Blow Job". This sucking down and pulling up technique also helps you keep from becoming tired - as you are not always trying to "deep throat". Do this simultaneous hand/blow job technique for about 7 to 10 strokes (thats 7 to 10 ups and 7 to 10 downs), then release your hand grip, slide it down to his balls and gently caress and tug on them. When you have gotten to the balls, now is the time for a very slow double/triple attempt at a deep throat. Go down as far as you can without gagging (remember to practice! ) Once you have made 2-3 deep attempts, move your hand back to the shaft and begin the simultaneous hand/blow job again for another 7 to 10 strokes. Practice until you can do this without really thinking about it. As for your jaw when sucking and releasing, try to keep it in an overbite (top teeth in front of the bottom teeth) position. This will help relieve fatigue on your part and naturally opens the rear of your mouth/top of your throat to help prevent the gag reflex. It also naturally causes the rear or base of your tongue to pull back a little to help cover the gag reflex too. Also remember that teeth cannot be avoided unless you wear dentures, in which case remove them first. Otherwise, don't worry too much, just try to not wear out grooves in the same area by raking your teeth over and over in the same spot. You will know he is coming when his dick swells even more. DO-Practice. DO-Stay Warm, Wet & Soft. DO-Mix it up. DO-Make some noise (moan, slurp, hum - BJ's are also called Hummers for a reason) DO-Bite (gently and without malice). DO-Vary the pressure of the hands and mouth. DO-More of whatever elicits a groan. DO MORE!
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springdragonfly I love giving bjs and I totally got turned on reading the way you wrote your advice. - 8 months ago
Answerer A true peace giver! There would be no more fighting (world peace) if there were more women like you. Keep it coming and spread the love. Cheers! - 8 months ago
Question Asker Hey bigguns I love your advice! Anyways, I thought any guy would come even if it is a bad blow job, is that true? - 8 months ago
Answerer 99% would come if you do anything except bite it off. Some cannot seem to orgasm from oral sex, but they are rare and really missing out. It would suck (sorry for the pun) to blow someone for an hour and they not come & probably not get offered again. - 8 months ago

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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
The fact that you are doing it, already puts you in the WIN column. To be honest, it all depends on the guy. Most guys don't like teeth or biting, while some guys find it kinky. Do what is comfortable for you. But never be afraid to ask the guy what he enjoys that you do, and what he could do without. Don't ask him if you're good or not, because he'll say you're good whether you are or not, so you will keep doing it. But ask what his fave and least fave part is, and that will give you more information.
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springdragonfly
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springdragonfly (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Bigguns gives great advice.

I would only add: ADORE his cock and be enthusiastic about sucking it. Act like you cannot get enough of it. There is something much hotter about a girl who is enjoying pleasing a guy than one who isn't into it.
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Superstrength79 I agree. The only BJ I've ever had sucked. Pardon the pun. She wasn't into it at all. - 8 months ago
 
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