A woman's body after having babies-does it turn you off?

Well it can be . . Especially when she hasn't made an attempt to get back in shape ( excusable to a certain extent, with lack of free time ) .

Finding time to yourself each day is the only way you'll get in shape, along with a decent eating habits . And if you are done having kids, maybe consider having a little medical pick-me-up done on your tummy . You'd be amazed how many moms do that when they are ready .

You still have a great figure. Stretch marks and wrinkly skin are "badges of honor" as far as I am concerned. I respect my wife's decision to bear my children. The least I could do is love her for the sacrifice of her body. I am sure your body hasn't changed much from post-child #2 to post-child #4. Obviously, your husband doesn't have a problem with the condition of your body or children #2, 3, and 4 would never have come around! I thought my wife a "hottie" before she was pregnant, after she was pregnant (seeing pregnant women today can still get me started! ) and still 2 years after giving birth to this day. If you are back to a size 6, you are miles ahead of the game with most other mothers of 4. If you want to help reduce or possibly even remove the stretch marks and wrinkly skin, use cocoa butter - it works wonders. Your breasts are a whole other story. Can't do much for those naturally, but there are great bras out on the market (bathing suits too! ) today. There is always surgery. I am secretly putting money aside for my wife's breasts. She has wanted a boob-job since her first baby "ruined" them. I could care less about the size and shape, as long as she leaves her nipples alone - they are fetish site quality to me. My wife's body is DEFINITELY not a turn off after 3 kids. It could be 10 kids and I would still desire her. I lust after her body all the time, but I love HER forever.

No, absolutely not. Children have nothing to do with making you look bad. If a guy cares for you, he won't even notice, except to think how great you look. My girlfriend has had three children, and she looks hot without clothes. Incidentally, she is tiny. 5'2'', and 104 lbs. Don't worry about it; no need to feel embarrassed.

Not in my case it just depends on who the man is how shallow he is. I have two kids my belly doesn't look that hot either but my husband wants it all the time he tells me how good I look all the time! He even bought me a two piece for the summer. So don't let that get you down we as women go through this stage in our life after we have childern the most important thing is to focus on what you love about your body and how you want to change it, don't worry about his opinion yours come first,also vitamin E oil works well for the belly I use it everyday it works very well, also I ordered this soft off line called volcanic ash you wrap you your belly as tight as you can get it let it dry wash it off in the shower it tightens your stomach and lightens the stretch marks up a lot it 's worth a try. Start there let me know if it works for you kay.