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Me and my boyfriend only have anal sex

Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. In the past 10 or so months our sex has been mostly anal. I had a period for like 3 weeks straight because of this new birth control my doctor put me on and that's when we started trying anal sex and it got to be really easy. I love it now and prefer it over regular sex. I use a dildo while he gives me anal and its been the best combination ever. We occasionally have vaginal intercourse but its been about 3 months since we did last. Are any other girls or couples like this?
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We have been doing this for a long time now and I have spoke to my doctor about it to. He checked everything out and I am fine. I haven't had any complications at all and we use plenty of lube and take it slow at first.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • My girlfriend and I have been predominantly doing anal for a while now. It's fantastic. You're right, it gets to be very easy, and it very pleasurable for her -- more than vaginal. She uses a vibrator at the same time, and she comes *really* hard. Even better, she likes it when I shoot sperm up into her ass :)

  • There is nothing wrong with it if you both enjoy it. However, you still need to remember to use a condom. With anal sex you are both at an increased risk of sharing an STD.

    Also, do you use lube? There is a chance that you can get hemorrhoids.

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  • It's a superior way to have sex! No birth control which causes heart attacks and cancer in women over the long term. And it keeps me horny - I can come from anal alone without even involing my vagina or clit, so it works out great - but I do need to touch my clit to come down eventually...

    • Absolutely! You save money on BC -- no brats running around! But seriously, they have done studies where the well being of a woman was greatly enhanced with sperm inside her. It could be mouth, vag or anus. They all worked. But it worked best for women who were able to trap the sperm in her colon. This way, it stays in deep. Sometimes, until next day or longer. There's no cleanup, and when and if it comes out -- it all comes out at once. I have had girls say it disappeared -- like their body absorbed it. Shocking, as I know the amount I shoot up there.

  • We do anal sex probably about half the time. Id do it more if I didn't need to lube up first.

    • Did you know they make a tube syringe for getting lube in deep? It's a very simple plunger and tube -- you fill it with lube -- put in in ass -- your are lubed for hours. You have to learn to keep it in there if you put it in early -- but that is what anal kegels are for. (Flexing anus muscles like this O * O *). One girl always loved to surprise me. We't get hot and heavy, and I'd find a butt plug in her ass with a lot of lube up even further. Or I would just spread her ass and lube would dribble out. SO GREAT for me if my dik was hard. I knew she meant -- no foreplay. I am ready. PUT IT IN DAM YOU!

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  • I have gone well over a year with anal only a couple times. One girl had vaginismus -- she'd just tighten up uncontrollably with any vag penetration. But anal opened right up.

    The other was the same -- birth control and period problems. Anal was a very satisfying solution to both. We'd go back to vag now and then -- but not for long. Always back to anal. If you both orgasm hardest that way -- with or without some clit play -- why change?

    It has been an education for me. I have learned that in the right position -- with her pushing out -- the head of my penis can enter her colon. When I orgasm in there -- it does not come out for hours. Some times until the next day -- helping with clean up. Girls have told me it has not come out at all -- their body just absorbed it. What else is in it for her? When I do enter the colon, that is when I see the "anal quake." First a cheek or a leg starts shaking -- then the other starts shaking. She is shaking and bucking and wiggling and I KNOW she is cumming so it is OK for me to let go. It is the most satisfying thing ever when I don't have to ask if she has orgasmed Her body tells me, and I enjoy riding her through it while emptying my balls of every drop. I can push too!

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  • i don't think that there will be couple who only have anal sex for a long time. but I think its not so weird if you both like it.

    if you like it.. continue... but don't forget! this will cause health problems later.

    • I'm pretty sure it won't cause health problems later. I know plenty of elderly gay men who are doing just fine.

    • Nope wrali actually he's right. Health problems due occur later. I'm in nursing school and I work at a hospital. I have experienced first hand gay couples or a gay person come in with anal damages and problems because of having anal sex all the time. And sadly its not just seen in older couples anymore. Younger couples are being noticed about it. And yes its irreversible. I have nothing against gay couples whatsoever. I'm just stating facts.

    • Pinkit is talking about what I wanted to say. she is right

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  • The best way to do sex!! kkk
    My girlfriend loves too.

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