This is for you guys: what do you like in a blow job?

heres an article I wrote that will answer ur question:
Blow Jobs: A Woman's Guide To Pleasing Her Man

First, I need to inform those of us who aren't self-made experts on the male anatomy:

1. Just because his penis is bigger than your clit doesn't mean he's any easier to get off. Men need just as much variety and attention as women do.

2. He's not going to get off every time. You have your off-days, and so does he.

3. He's not going to leave you if you're not any good in bed. If he does, he's not worth the effort.

4. He can still enjoy the sensations of head without cumming.

5. "Too gentle" isn't enough. "Too sensitive" isn't very good either.

Now, keeping that in mind, the first step to giving good head is to relax... And that goes for the giver and the receiver. The easiest position for this is to get in between his legs, lay just over his cock, and brace yourself on your left forearm.

Next, gather some saliva in your mouth (if this is a problem, for about $1 at any sex shop, you can find little one-time flavored lube packets) and S L O W L Y take the head--just the head--in your mouth. Gently lick the corona (the ridge around the head), not spending too much time in any one spot. Lick the frenulum (the V-shaped ridge under the head), and around the urethra (p*ss-hole). Take him out of your mouth (slowly, no teeth!), lube up your mouth, and go down farther (about half way.) If you can deep-throat, don't do it yet. You don't want to show him all your tricks in the first couple of minutes. As you come back up, lick the underside of his shaft in a figure-8 pattern, making sure to apply some suction. Vary these acts until he becomes rock-hard.

After he's fully hard, feel free to be a little harder and faster with him. Note: the harder he gets doesn't necessarily mean the rougher you have to get with him. Emphasize variety by intensity, but remember not to be too light. Do not bend his cock. Keep your tongue going around the corona, and on the shaft, your left side, a quarter inch below the head. If you want to deep throat him, now is the time. However, deep-throating doesn't constitute a good blow job. Look for signs that he's enjoying himself--what he says isn't always reliable. Listen to his breathing, watch the involuntary bucking of his hips, the twitching of his cock, and the pulling back of his cock.

When he's ready to cum, his **** and balls will draw up together. If you feel this and want to continue the sensation, firmly grab his balls and gently tug them down. Please remember that swallowing in itself isn't as important as letting him come in your mouth. If you remove your mouth and finish him off with your hands, you're talking about taking away the source of pleasure and replacing it with something that he can do himself. If he wants a handjob, he doesn't need you. What you do with it is irrelevant.

Remember: make sure that you're both having fun.

I ALWAYS love the sucking where it seems like she wants every last drop of you know what...but at the same time just slightly palming the testes and light massaging them. I'll come in a hurry that way...which means it's very pleasurable.

you need to keep switching it up to vary the stimulation. a key thing is also how you act in general. you need to be enthusiastically into it and acting like you are loving it. many girls go into this quite ashamed kind of mode when they go to give head. you need to act like you are really into it, look up at his eyes a lot, get sloppy and just go with it. make the mmmmmmm sound, like you love the taste of it.
swirl your tongue around the head of the penis. lick his balls while you jerk him off. rub the head of his **** on your lips without putting it in your mouth. put the head in and out of your mouth but not very far, just past the lips. keep your lips tight around the head and go in and out a little like you are sucking on a lollipop, but don't actually suck too hard. sometimes it is nice to see you only taking healf the head in. we like to see your lips wrapped around it and still see some of the head. it is really nice if you are doing the lollipop thing while looking innocently up at us. we like it when you act like you need to suck our penis or you won't be happy. rub his penis head on the inside of your cheek sometimes.
by the way it is way better if we are standing up or sitting in a chair and you are on your knees, it is just a hotter situation and we can see everything.

here is the real kicker, master this and he will be in heaven: when you are sucking it pull it out every once in a while, look up at your man in his eyes and slap his penis against your extended tongue a bunch of times and then rub his **** quickly all over your tongue but keep your tongue extended and steady and move the **** to make it rub on your tongue, all the while still staring him in the eyes. don't be afraid to get sloppy and dirty about it, we like that. some girls get alll nervous and think that they have to do it some specific way, but generally we want you to lose yourself in it and just be enthusiastic and sloppy about it. we love the fact that you are getting so close and personal with our penis and happily rubbing it all over you tongue, lips and even face. slapping and rubbing it on your breasts now and again is always nice too while you take a little break from sucking.

it sounds kind of perverted, but one of the great things about getting head is that the girl is looking sweet and innocent and she can barely take our big throbbing penis in her mouth but she is trying and getting it rubbed all over her. we like that you are taking a kind of submissive position to us, getting down on your knees and working hard just to make us feel great. for me the best part is watching her do all those nasty sloppy things with my penis.

oh, also grip his balls when you are doing it and make sure to give them a little attention to.

Of you swallow that is all I ask for. Or let me come on your face.

some guys such as myself like freaky type blowjobs by that I mean fast...deepthroat...wet I guess you can say a porn blowjob type...some like it at a good pace and just consistent...i think the best would be if your into it do a little of everything deepthroat spit go fast slow down lick and at the end swallowing would works w any guy or if your a freaky type a facial... now talking about it before you do it is actually sexy especially if your willing to make his fantasies come true ha get it so I would say talk to a guy or simply find out during the act hell let you know what he likes and only do what you are into or what you don't mind doing to make him happy...if he feels you will do anything to make him happy and do whatever he likes hell go crazy

Keep your mouth open until you have him at the back of your mouth, THEN close your lips around him and pull up. Do this a few times and he will squirm.

Use every surface of your mouth except your teeth and see how he responds to each.

No hands.

Using both hands at the same time while going down on him.

Cupping his balls in your hand, Sucking his balls, Linking his taint, Finger his buttcrack or stroke his chest as you suck onhim.

Don't suck too hard, let your mouth do the stoking.

Smile.

Tell him you like him.

Don't take him out of your mouth until he has finished climaxing.

Let him play with your hair.

Hold his hands with yours.

Put his feet behind his head.

Hell, now I'm horny.

A great book came out recently about blow jobs, there are like TONS of techniques, tips and tricks you can learn, here's a link for you ---> link

I really like to have my balls sucked and tickled just as I'm about to cum

The one thing I like, is for her to at least enjoy what she's doing. If she's not comfortable giving a blow job, then forget it. If she's having fun, then I am too.

How would a girl like it if If I was moping and complaining about going down on her?

That article was good... but it was missing one thing. The penis actually runs all the way through the balls. Even if it looks like he's rock hard, you may be overlooking a few inches that you can't see. Keep him hard with your hand while you lick straight down through his balls and you can make him rock hard from the very back of his nuts all the way to the tip of his penis. One dude mentioned "ball play". What he means is, those aren't just balls, there's a penis down there too.

No hand stimulation on the penis,just mouth.
Ball play
Nice and wet,not sloppy,we need some friction.
A hot mouth or a really cool one,keep hot and cold water near!
Slow stimulation
Long licks up the shaft
A little rubbing on the tongue
EYE CONTACT!

I like it when she gags.

small circles with your tongue on the head. lick the side. put mouth on the side open with shaft in your mouth and go up and down. stroke some. not to hard or it make chafe. put IT in and circle with tongue try not to use your teeth it may hurt him some. keep the upper and lower part of the lips wet and fold them over your teeth to give a vagina feel to it...

Guys like a variety in speed, suction, and external tickling with your hand.
Visually, taking us "all in" is especially erotic.

The more you practice and really get into it, the better we feel.

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i prefer to have the girl sit on my face...id rather taste sex than feel it...but to help you out try not using your teeth..wrap your lips over your teeth to avoid hurting the guy...spit...use lots of spit...look up at the guy and talk nasty...also let the guy you're enjoying it by fingering yourself and let him see you do it...soooo sexy...

SexyCrystals answer is basically spot on. The main mistake most girls make when giving head, I think, is not giving enough attention to the testicles. Alternating between sucking on the penis and then the testicles feels abso-f***ing-lutely a-f***ing-mazing for most of us. And if he tells you to do it differently from how you are doing it, for instance: "Faster, baby.. harder... slower... Suck on my balls... now suck on my cock" etc DON'T take this as a bad thing, take it as a GOOD sign! It means he trusts your ability and he's encouraging and guiding you to tip him over the edge. You're not a mind reader, and only he knows what will work for him in that particular moment. Oh, and moan when it's in your mouth. Moan and slurp like it's the tastiest thing that's ever been in your mouth. THAT is f***ing hot!

deep throat it and moan like a p**** cat :)

Stroke it while sucking it
play with his balls
try a finger in his ass or near his ass
tickle his balls
actually "suck" it occasionally
moan
lightly tease with your teeth
be sure to swallow
double fist it if its big enough (both hands stroking)
suck on just the head
lick it all the way up and down
talk about how big it is and how sucking it makes you horny

Slow and smooth is the best. And licking the top drives me crazy. But you do it too fast it feels too damn uncomfortable. I don't like to have my balls sucked, I had it a couple times & felt a bit dirty like that's something reserved for my future partner

i can't speak for every guy but me personally
-the sloppier the better (a lot of saliva)
-gagging sounds make him feel bigger
-try to go as deep as you can
-eye contact is good but just don't stare at us . . .makes us feel weird
- don't leave the balls hangin' (no pun intended..lol)
- if your mouth can't take it all, use your hand to compensate for what your mouth can't handle.

The most important thing, is that you complete the job and swallow it all. Where some go wrong and ruin the job, is that they will stop or change their motion right when they sense that the guy is working up to orgasm; this is the point where you want to double up on your efforts if anything - stopping or interrupting the stimulation right before a guy ejaculates is not only 100% anticlimactic emotionally, but can also be quite painful. IF you think you are going to get cold feet when it comes that moment to finish the job, then you would be wise not to start.

I like to start off by lightly pressing the tip of his penis to my wet lips, and slowly running his penis deeper and deeper into my mouth. Slowly getting him wetter and wetter, by running my tongue up and down his shaft. Moaning softly once and a while. The one thing that I have learnt that works very well, I do have to say you need to be ready yourself, it can be difficult. After you have gotten him hard and wet, and very close to cumming slow down, let him get close and then back off. Do this about three times, each time it will get closer and closer. The last time you do this let him finish, all of that built up sexual energy is great and from what I've enough to make your arms go numb.

A friend of mine told me about this site that offers a step by step guide to giving the best oral sex to your guy. You can check it out here: link It is well worth it. I had no idea there were so many things you could do to give your guy the best oral of his life!

What I have done to drive him wild while giving head...well as I have often mentioned in my posts, I am a huge fan of giving head. It is my entree and dessert course all in one. Some of my favorite little tricks are:

* With him standing and me kneeling/squatting on the floor, I hold his **** at the base (very gently including the balls) just firmly enough and I arch my back like the 'howling wolf' position. My face in this position has to look up at his **** and with my mouth open (eye contact and flirting here) I flick my tongue very rapidly up and down right on his frenulum for about 10 seconds. Then I switch to another technique.

* This one can be done in most positions but my favorite is always the standing--> kneeling/squatting position. With my mouth at least half-way down on him and my teeth carefully checked, I shake my head at a moderate to slow pace back and forth like one does when shaking their head 'no.' Turn at least 45 degrees to each side. This action provides amazing and very interesting stimulation on all parts of his cock. Sometimes I hold his hips with my hands and sometimes I do it hands-free and sometimes I use a hand to grasp it in the usual manner. Make sure your lips are nicely wrapped around it though to get the best full mouth stimulation. This is a great technique to try with the hum (make a deep and low humming noise).

All in all, I give a very visual show. I tease. I talk dirty (never fake or cheesy). I spend a nice long time doing it. I change it up a lot. I do every style from submissive slave girl to soft and loving to rough and wild to dominatrix and I love it all. That in itself pretty much drives them wild and besides, most men find any enthusiastic head giving to be pretty great.

I teased this guy once. I was just rubbing his chest and around his **** and I knew he was horny but next thing you know he cums. He must have been really turned on by me doing that to him.

gave him a bj with ice in my mouth

try this... roll ur body upwards on his package. kiss him a lil. rub his thighs...tease him. then turn around (now he gets a good view of you). tell him he's not allowed to touch you (he will trust me). then just do your thing on him. one thing he always responds to with moaning is when I hum while giving him head. this technique is always in mags and stuff. you just gotta be INTO IT!

My boyfriend loves it when I look up at him

When you have a wide variety of things to do. Like take your tongue and go back and forth really fast on his head, he loves it when you do that with a mini hand job below at the same time. But if you always do that, it gets boring so you have to change it up. Also try deepthroating, it makes them go crazy (: They also have this tender spot right between their balls below the lower part of the penis.. If you rub it at the same time, it's a big winner. What they like the most is when he cums in your mouth.. Whether you spit or swallow is your choice but they will love you forever if you let them do it (:

while giving him a bj you can give him a hj 2=]
he'll love it. o and suck his balls while you give him a hand job

jerk and suck at the same time trust me he will love it

I boyfriend likes it wen I jerked and sucked at the same time. While I focused on the head with my mouth I worked the shaft with my hands. He comes every time. (Plus I swallow, most guys prefer girls who swallow)

Like they all said.. def swallow it. to spit it out and have a sour look on your face is going to make him not want to get it from you ever again. I learned from Jenna Haze (porn star) id say get on of her videos and watch it, it really helped me and I've never had a complaint.

i know its not the most glamorous thing and I know it might be super salty but if ur not gonna puke on him swallow it. just grow some balls and do it(sorry being super honest here) you may get the not so common guy who doesn't want you to do this and if you worried about finding out what he likes before you do it get him to talk dirty. tell him what ur gonna do to him and be super seductive about it. if there's anything you want to try bring it up now. ask him if he likes what ur doing for ex: I wanna suck you dry and then swallow it all..what do you think of that baby. now's ur time to be x rated. (well and while you actually do it) you can also ask him what he wants you to do. you can try letting it come back out of ur mouth and then lick it up again or kiss with it in your mouth(snowball). be careful if you want to try this. so guys refuse to taste their own cum. also you have to be quite adventurous when doing this or you won't seem into it. and if you start the job with your hand and he has precum you can get it on ur fingers and lick it off where he can see it. if you do this don't make a face even if you don't like it(turn off), while giving him the bj change the pressure of of ur lips around his thing. make sure you keep ur tongue going to. you can also use your hands. and I'm not talking about only on his thing run them up his sides hold his ass and pull him into ur mouth some. and look at him. show him your enjoying it too. if you make pleasing him ur first priority and making him blow your second you will automatically make it that much better. all of these things can make a bj all the much better and if you do talk dirty he might tell you some stuff. be sure to ask him things like "what would you most want me to do what would make you go nuts." if you don't like the idea do something super close to it and if he asks y you didn't do it after make sure you give an honest answer. good luck and have fun'