I tend to just think about what I'm doing and how good it feels, not any person or situation. Was also a time I thought about how to explain what I do to someone else, lol.
Sometimes I think about a particularly hot sex session I've had with my man, and I replay it in my head. And other times I just think about the pleasure, and how it feels as I'm doing it. I never fantasize about celebrities, if I'm in a relationship that's who I'm thinking of, if I'm not in a relationship, it might be an ex that I'm thinking of or just the act itself.
When I was young, I always believed sex "meant something", and it wasn't simply something that was taught to me -- it was instinctive. When I grew up and entered the adult world, tons of people told...
Disclaimer: First off, before anyone says, I don't want to hear a sermon; I'm not going to bring up religion in anyway. I'm not a preacher and your religious beliefs are yours to choose. Second, I'm...