My boyfriend tells me that he can only have sex after a really long time of recuperation. Like 10+ hours. Is this true?
I always suspect it is because my boobs are not big enough to turn him on like his favorite models.? I only suspect this because once after we had sex. I was talking dirty to him and he actually got hard again?
I always here in songs about guys singing " I'll **** a super model and cum twice"
Is true that us regular girls just can't turn you on like the models do?
Update: By the way. I'm his first sex partner, and he is mine as well. Is it because he doesn't have enough experience.? Does being able to cum again take practice? Thanks!
9 months ago
Update: Also, I know that he loves me very much, by the things he does. So is just because I'm not "hot" enough?
9 months ago
Every Guy is different and every situation is different as well. For me, I have days where all I need is about 15 to 20 minutes and I am hard and ready to go again, but then there are other days, like when I am stress out about something then I might need and hour or 2 to get back to being ready again.
Hmm, I've never heard it having to take 10 hours. But, depending on his age, level of health, and his attraction to her, it can be anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour or two.
And no, regular girls can do it just like other girls. ;-)
Ok, you sound like my girlfriend. Well the boob part. But yeah, I know how you feel, my girlfriend says the same thing. And no, it's not true! He's either to tired, or just plain lying to you, cause boob size has nothing to do with it. When we "do it" I like grabbing her boobs, even though she says I'm not grabbing anything, I like it. I Love cumming while grabbing her, and trust me its more than once!
It's all about the individual. Sure, we can say there are some situations where we did this, and some situations where we did that, but both times it most likely had nothing to do with the woman.
I know for a fact that stress and work can have a huge impact on getting it up...Believe it or not, guys do think with their other head sometimes. Maybe your guy has a lot on his mind?
Do you enjoy the sex? I only ask because if talking dirty to him worked, and got him up again, why would you not want to do that all the time? Just playing the role of devil's advocate there...
It has nothing to do with how hot you are. It just depends. Sometimes after sex I'm totally worn out and can't get hard and sometimes I can cum 10 times in 20mins. It just depends. Although unless you're really tiring him out most of the time he should be good to go again after a few mins. You should talk to him. Maybe he doesn't feel like he's ready for sex so after its over he feels kinda guilty. I think its a personal problem and you've really got to talk to him about it.
I do not think it would take that long to cum again, but there is a certain amount of time before I guy can cum again, but it is very short time for younger guys. I remember when I got my first bj and I was cumming almost every minute. But I am not sure that it has to do with you not being hot enough. I really just do not know.
I'm highly amused by the questions. I think is all chemistry. I've been with girls where I was so excited that I came, and 2 min later I was ready to go. Came again, and 2 min ready to go, and went on like that for at least 3-4 hours. I've been in situations where after 3 min, I came, couldn't get it up til the next day. And is not like the girls that got me going so much were suprmodels; they were either average or good looking girls, but not super models. Sure, practice has a lot to do with it, but also sometimes you just sexually click with a person, and it makes for great sex. Boobs? Depends on the guy, really. Some guys love teh sight of big boobs, others don't care much, like me.
Whether you are hot or not shouldn't make a difference if he "loves you" as you say. It could also just be nerves, but really, you already know he can go again if he wants to. Talk dirty to him again, and you will see what I mean. If not, lose him. - 9 months ago
Experience has nothing to do with it and no "practice" needed. If anything, he will last a lot longer on the 2nd go around, but will still wind up coming again and again and again. Young men are very similar to the Energizer bunny, just not as hairy.
Find another boyfriend. He's a liar. It is more like 10 minutes at around your age (about 30 for me). Your boobs have nothing to do with it. I have had tons and tons of sex with "regular girls" and 99% of the time "cum twice" or more. I have had sex with super models only a few times and usually came once. Of course, that was because I spurted all over the Vic Secrets and the pages stuck together so I couldn't see them anymore. Damn the luck! Gotta improve my aim. Boob size has nothing to do with it. Just drop the loser and get another. Any other will do, and will do better and more than once.
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