We're getting marry in the next 3 years. So should we get it or wait. He's getting his with my name and our son. And I'm getting mines with his and our son. We love each other and we plan to spend the rest of our life together. We are getting them together.
NOOOOO!!!!!...Getting your son's name inked in is fine because, no matter what, you both will have him forever. There's a 50% divorce rate out there (some studies are saying 60%) so it is very possible that you guys will not be staying together. As well, your age raises this to about an 80% chance of divorcing.
So do you want to be explaining that tat in your next relationship?
Maybe your sons name, But I think you should wait a Looong looong time (if ever) to get a person your withs name on you. No tattoo. Unless its your kids name.
If you guys have a kid together and DO plan to stay together forever, without any doubt, then yea, go ahead and get it, but remember it will always be there.
I know the plan is staying together forever but think of every possibility, no matter how unlikely it seems, because there's always a chance.. what if you two separate? Would you be upset to still have his name on you after you separate?
I personally think getting someones name tattooed on you is like the kiss of death for any relationship - my boyfriends friend was in a relationship with a woman for over 10 years, they got tattoos of each other's names, a year later, they separated.
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