Why does it seem like all guys think the girls who fake tan, have botox-ed lips & implants, and act like dumb sluts are totally hot and want them (around)? We had a foreign exchange student at our school one year, and she looked like a cheeto with white blonde hair. But almost every guy in school thought she was hot babe! I just don't get it.
Update: The reason I call them dumb sluts is because of how they act. Dumb because they act like, well, airheads. Sluts because they do a lot of things.And I'm not calling anyone a dumb slut or anything.
6 months ago
Because even though they are "fake" they look hotter and for a fling or just sometimes a good time they are what a typical guy would want. But for guys that want serious relationships its different they want something on a deeper level than just looks.
Well, not all guys find that attractive. Personally I like a more natural looking woman but to be honest, for all I know she could have a fake tan, surgically enhanced lips, and implants and she'll still look natural. The thing is that these are just enhancements to her physical appearance and they just prove to emphasize a few areas.
The reason they think that she's a babe is probably because she fits the profile of being attractive. Physical appearance is the only thing that initiates attraction, because this is all you have to base your opinion of the person on, how they look.
In addition to this, chances are that if she is in fact a 'dumb slut' then guys want her around because they think she'll let them have sex with her. You have to understand that for a guy, the first response to seeing an attractive woman is, 'I want to have sex with her,' and this is his sole reason for approaching her initially. If a relationship comes out of it, that's more of a bonus than anything else.
I think that having a little tan is a good thing. Then there are the girls who overtan, and look orange. That is not attractive to me. As far as hair color, I would have to probably say that blonde hair does seem to get more looks, but that doesn't mean that the guy is interested. When we see long blonde hair, it immediately grabs our attention and we have to look and see if the face matches the hair. But to be honest, I have seen just as many, if not more, amazingly beautiful girls with brunette, black, and red hair. So don't think that you have to have blonde hair to be pretty. As far as boobs, guys are going to look if they're big and hanging out. That doesn't mean that we like them any better. I honestly prefer smaller boobs. But yes, girls that have their boobs hanging out, are going to attract some attention. But is that really the attention you want, is some guy drooling over something that is attached to your body? Wouldn't you rather get attention from a guy who likes you for who you are, and not what you have?
Because they are the "eye-candy" for guys, are comfortable with all things "slut" and have the title of "foreign-exchange-student".
Guys are attracted to girls that are visually appealing - though for wrong reasons - aka sex, a bed bang, a bed date - what ever you call it, it includes the all classes tit bang. But, then again, if a guy was looking for some serious relationship - they'd look more so toward personality - in which case, yes looks still matter but the personalty genre overrules the appearance.
Oh. Well, guys like dumb slutty girls because they're hot and they put out. It doesn't mean they don't like smart classy girls (well I hope not lol), but it's just that they're going where the sex is.
If you're hungry, and you want something fast cheap & easy, you're gonna go to Burger King right?
Because they really care about how they look, and they're attractive. Don't hate the player, hate the game lol. Unless you personally know all girls who fake tan and dye their hair, you shouldn't just call them dumb sluts because it makes you look jealous and a bit insecure.
Also, you don't have to fake tan, dye your hair, or fit the Barbie profile to be attractive. There are plenty of girls who work with what they have naturally and still are considered hot babes. You have to be confident in yourself and not worry about the next chick.
Because you're 16, lol. Oh and the fact that this girl was foreign probably helped. Of course it depends on where she was from, but I've been around quite a few foreign people in my day. We even hosted THREE exchange students when I was in high school. In addition to the whole accent thing, I have noticed that girls from Europe seem to be a little more comfortable with sex than American girls. All reasons why young horny teenagers would like them.
Trust me, that's not all guys go for. I am not blonde. I am VERY pale. (Seriously, I have pictures on my profile, go look if you want.) I have absolutely NOTHING fake about my body and I even have a little extra around the middle after having kids. I'm not dumb, in fact I have an IQ of 148. And I'm also not a slut. Yet guys really like me. I am not trying to be conceited here, just being honest. I'm happily married with 2 kids and yet I've been shamelessly hit on by at least 3 guys in the last 2 days.
Just be confident in who you are and the guys will eventually come around, I promise!
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