Am I outdated when it comes to women? what's happened to getting to know someone first and see where it goes from there? I had a friend tell me, I need to show my feelings towards women.
But,problem how can I have feelings for a woman I barely know? example:if I met a woman at a coffee shop,how can anyone develop feelings for someone they just met?
I believe in getting to know someone first before anything happens Am I that outdated? To a point I believe in love at 1st sight.
At the same time here's a example how fast love can fade. If you have kids, around Christmas time every kid has a toy they want very, very badly. And than they get their present and play with it for hrs on end. Fast forward a few weeks or months what happens to the toy the kid use to play with for so long. Either they got tired of it,or they misplace and gets broken or lost.
Something to think about when it comes to love. Am I right?
I agree that you should get to know someone before verbalizing any feelings. Too many people rush into things and later regret it and people get hurt. My case being a perfect example. My boyfriend rushed into the I love you, moving in, buying a house, ring shopping and then he got scared and left, which left me in ruins. Get to know the girl, go out a few times, have some fun and see where it goes from there. Just make sure you are totally sure before verbalizing any feelings or empty promises of a future
Exactly 100% right. My ex has a new toy really really quickly after me, he doesn't even know this girl. I am an old toy, when the new toy grows old..He will want the old sturdy toy he played with for a long time to play with..That was given to a different kid to play with.
Think of woman as "the great pretenders" - most of them are - they will try to become what they think the man they likes wants - then later on will hate him for making them change, yet in many cases, they changed themselves - make sense right?
the feelings your female friends are talking about are, do you feel hawt for her.
I've been out w/her a couple of times . And I get the just friends,but when she calls about how it didn't work out with someone . it's like she'll think about giving me a chance to date her . But in the end she finds someone else and it's been a roller coaster up and down . I've told her I want my pink slip,not be w/her anymore but refuses to let me walk . Anyone have any advice ? - 5 months ago
Of course, is difficult to have feelings for women you barely know, unless it so happens you're one of those extremely odd cases that claim that they fell in love at first sight, but even then, can you imagine yourself seeing these people telling each other they love each other when they first meet? Most people don't really understand the concept of love, and it seems your friend is one of them. you're absolutely right. You need to get to know a person, and then feelings come. And yes, love can fade pretty fast because again, there is no concept of what love is. :)
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