What does your booty call mean to you?

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To me a booty call is someone I'm interested in mainly physically but that I would tolerate a friendship with so that the sex is comfortable.

Guys seem to think it's more like you can either be friends, lovers or nothing (like the new John Mayer song).

I had a guy and we used to be each others booty call and the reason we aren't anymore is because I kept trying to befriend him and he kept pushing me away, we wound up getting in a fight about it and now we are nothing.
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what I mean by: "Guys seem to think it's more like you can either be friends, lovers or nothing" is that it's one or the other, there doesn't seem to be an in-between, why is that? Why can't you be friends and lovers?
What does your booty call mean to you?
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