What does a man mean when he says ' I think we should cool it for a while'
So, been seeing this guy for a while, had some amazing dates, really got on well, very comfortable with each other, he said he really fancied me, couldn't keep his hands off me. Sex was OK, he had a few issues but he came back for more and he said we would work round things together which I was fine with. He formally asked me out, I wasn't too bothered as was happy with a casual friendly thing. Every morning first thing would get a lovely message from him and through out the day. Were meant to go out last monday but he had caught my cold and didn't feel too well so we postponed, was still getting really nice messages, I asked if he needed anything and for me to go round and he said no he was ok. tues got the usual lovey dovey messages then weds got a text saying he didn't think he wanted to be in a relationship right now and we should cool things for a while. Now what does that mean, its over all together or at some point he will come crawling back, its the 'for awhile' part that's bugging me. he says its nothing I have done, its just where his head is at and he's sorry and that he does rush into things without thinking sometimes. Its just confusing as in 24 hours he totally changed, he was the one putting the pressure on, not me. Know he hates his birthday which is today but that's hardly a reason. thought he was totally different from other men as we got on so well as mates but when I sent him a happy birthday message he didn't even respond which is just rude. he seemed like such a decent guy when we were mates. Just so confused, its been a long time since he has been in a relationship so maybe he got spooked? Most of my mates think I will hear from again esp as he literally lives down the road but I don't know. Any opinions?
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