Im very sorry for that betrayel brought on you. I can't imagine the pain :/ let me tell you exactly what I would do, cause sometimes when you get f***ed over you can't trust someone again just on hope alone. make a fake Facebook,lets say a city that's close to yours,younger girl with fake pictures,choose a sexy petite little number with fatty boobs. write some bologna about her saying " I love older men, who have experience" "im open for just about anything" you know that whole bit. then add your husband, and write him just friendly with a touch of flirtation, if he flirts back, eventually get more into it, see how far your husband will go. I would even buy a real cheap track phone just to see if he wants to text miss faux. and if he wants to meet up id gladly meet him, with his suitcase and possibly some pepper spray. my boyfriend once told me he was at home asleep, I believed him until I started sensing something fishy. So one night when he was 'sleeping' I went to his friends house load and behold look whos parked in the drive way. got in a fight, he hasn't done it since. and trust me I check once in a blue moon. some say I sound like a snoopy bitch, I say if I'm getting stabbed in the back I might as well know what kind of knife it is. good luck!