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I have the same issue with guys. I think that they are interested, tell them how I feel and then never hear from them again...
usually they find that they don't like you as much as they thought. try asking them why they pull back so suddenly and work on whatever it is they don't like
cause they want you whipped...so when your on cloud nine together...she can take out that crow bar, knock you out cold and then take your money. example: Reggie Bush and Kim Karfagian
Let me pose a question to you...Why do guys always pull back when the girl (me) is interested? I guess it goes both ways...that's all I can really say.
Relax.....
Well I mean guys do do that- she isn;'t saying anything reduculous. When you give into the game playing your gonna get played that's it.
Because they're playing their stupid games and making their own rules all the time.
- GIRKLS DO cause they are idiotically made to BELIEVE that GUYS like this.
- WOMAN DON'T because they have been there done that & KNOW it it is IDIOTIC..
That's what happons when women get advice on men from other women and gay guys
Seems so..... ^ ^
that's weird. if I'm interested in him, I'll try to get to know him more. if I'm not interested or I'm busy, I will pull back.
Well Girls like me that are shy and never had the guts to flirt or ask a guy out and sometimes do show interest get nervous and scared how it might turn out no matter if the guy becomes interested.
Guys usually make the first move anyways , so there isn't much for the girls to do until the guy approches them . and I do like them so I'm not sure why they'd be scared that I wouldn't like them .
nobody knows. scientists maintain that the answer was lost thousands of years ago...
Some girls like myself are scared of getting hurt, they pull themselves away! Most of the time it's not because their not interested anymore. They want to see how far you'll go to prove that you are interested in them!
But it is hard for a guy to know whether or not that is the case. Eventually we (actually let me speak for myself. so I mean me) get discouraged.
...get discouraged and go elsewhere. Option 1- spend time trying to figure out if she's playing games, if she's shy, if she's afraid
Option 2- find someone else who gives feedback on what I'm doing lol
Lol I know I know ! -
Find someone that will actually talk to you, so that if you die tomorrow your last memory is being alive, not waiting to see if there is life on earth... Or inside someones head....
The same sh*t happened to me not once, but THREE times in high school. And it happened like twice in college. This is f***ed up.
Now I have trust issues with girls.
let me put it this I have no idea what I want. ever. girls are confusing that way. for me even though it drives me nuts I go for hard to get kind of flirting
At least this one is honest
This goes for pretty much all girls
Ni it doesn't it just sSEEMS like it goes for all girls from the girls who go or it.
Like people who love pizza can't imagine anyone not loving pizza,.. Some people find it disgusting or unedable or just a health risk.
Well in Asia cheese is seen as p*ss from an animals mammary glands - which is sometimes how I feel about games - something waistful to a human.
Just me but you now everyone is different.
haha! I do that all the time. I get nervous mostly. in general I tell myself that the guyll make a move if he is really interested. I think sometimes guys think I'm uninterested but I think you know if a girl likes you
Well maybe it's the way you get to them. Not all girls like a guy that's allover them or maybe you just told them too fast. You have to let them get to you first and then you'll know they are really interested in you.
Thats not an answer, either a woman is interested in a guy or not.
ok...if you havn't heared its called chasing its wht your doing...and girls like guys to chase them...so chse them but make sure your not being annoying...lol
And that's what annoy me most from girls.
It is hard to differ between Hard-To-Get style and You-Are-Annoying style.
Guys hate chasing. Mostly we think the girl isn't worth it when she starts playing those games.
Wht how...!?!?
Well, how would you feel if you as a first-timer say, thought you had a chance with a girl you liked, and you got played? Its all cause and effect...guys have feelings too and we do feel hurt when this happens. Sadly, girls never think about this that the person she's hurting might well be the love of her life. Because...he's never had a proper chance to express to her how much he loves her (when she is playing us). That's why we hate it.
I hate chasing & I hate being chased...
Tho I'm a long distance runner so I guess I take care of that tendency is a more healthful creative why rather than experiencing & inflicting emotional pain on everyone I get involved with.
Yea that happens to me all the time. At first I don't even notice the girl, then I do and the situation does a complete 360.
Well how did you approach them ? That could have something to do with their behavior .
Agreed.
Well they haven't all been approached the same way , so its not like every situation is the same . but generally I seem to meet them somewhere , fall for them a bit , then try and make some sort of move either in person or thru the net but they just seem to pull back before anything serious ever happens