Your ears are old enough to hear it.
Well, I can't speak for every guy, but for me, when I'm really stressed and in a bad mood.
I think thing that would work for me would be to be calm.
Show that you care, but don't force it because I may not have a way of talking about it just yet.
Keep telling me that its alright. We gon be alright.
Put on a slow song like "A Change is Gonna Come" by Sam Cooke.
Tell me to relax.
lay me down.
and give me a massage followed by some slow caring Oral.
I should be fine after that.
This is not meant to be. PIG-HEADED.
This is what would work for me.
Either that, or
Just let me play the game for a while, and cuddle under me, and ask me what's wrong.
That would work also.
I just need to know that you are concerned, because in the end I want to talk to you about it.
Guys just don't like to be irritated.
Be concern, but wait for them to want to talk about it.
If they never talk about it, don't be upset.
Be happy, because he found a way through it.
And I'm sure just you doing what I just said would help them through.
& the fact that you are even trying to help would work.
A Loving Black Man