He just wants to be friends?
This guy says he likes me, but he just wants to be friends. He finds me attractive, we have fun when we spend time together, he's even introduced me to his family and friends, but his big problem is that we work together. His friends and family treat us like we're practically married. They assume we're a couple, or that we are going to be a couple. He sometimes hints towards a relationship, and then he backs away. My friends are telling me to 'kick him to the curb', because he's so flippy floppy with his behaviour. They also tell me I'm better looking than he is, but he's attractive to me, and I find what they say kind of mean. Anyway, he's been hurt in past relationships with girls he's worked with and says he just wants to be friends. He also said that we should date other people and see what's out there.but I'm not really sure he means it because he gets weird and upset when I went to this singles thing (that was canceled by the way) or when I show genuine interest in someone else, but at the same time he tells me that I am entitled to do what I want. I've been in a past relationship where I tried to remain friends but I couldn't do it. I also became emotional and started crying when this guy said he wanted to start dating.mostly because of my past experience, fear, jealousy. Trust me, I didn't want to start crying, but I didn't know where it came from. I assumed our friendship was heading towards a relationship. There's definitely an attraction/connection between us because we've been playing this game for over a year now. My fear is that he finds someone else, and I'm left alone. I don't have the best luck when it comes to relationships, and I guess I just want to know if holding on to him is the right thing to do. Is there anyone out there that was in a situation like mine, but ended up with that person?
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