Did I say something wrong? Should I try to fix it or just leave it?
The boy I have been involved with for the past few months and I both work a lot. We work 6 day weeks and we work almost opposite hours, because of this we haven't seen each other in almost three weeks.
If I'm honest I was starting to worry because I wasn't sure if he wanted to see me any more (I've used the old "I'm too busy with work" thing more than a few times to get rid of boys I'm not interested in) and I wanted to talk to him to make sure we were on the same page. I sent him a message just asking if we could catch up in person and talk about a few things and he replied with "What did you want to talk about?" and then it was followed by "hopefully I'll have some free time this week".
I replied with "It's nothing much? I would prefer to talk about it in person though. I suck at wording things sometimes ahaha
Either way just let me know if you get some free time! I finish work at around 4pm everyday this week so I'm free after that?"
I know he saw the message and I got no reply to it, and after talking to a few friends they told me it would be best to be honest so I sent him "I would still prefer to talk to you in person but I'll just bite the bullet here and be honest, I feel like it's only fair.
I'm sort of getting the feeling you don't want to see me and I could be wrong but if you aren't interested I would prefer if you told me.
If that's the case then I totally I understand, that's life sometimes and while I might be disappointed but I would rather know then be left hanging.
I didn't just want to talk to you about that when I asked to see you though, I had a few other (less ominous sounding) things I wanted to talk about as well ahaha
I just don't want to feel like I'm bothering you or being annoying by asking you to get together?"
He has also viewed this message and not replied, it has been over 12 hours. I'm not sure what to think? I feel like his lack of a reply is my answer but I have sort of a "fix it" nature so I want to send a follow up message but I'm not sure if I should?
Did I say something wrong or did things come across as confrontational? Should I just leave it? Any help interpreting things?
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