In my opinion, its not that men want women to be weak or strong. For me personally. I want a woman to be emotional. Now not overly emotional. That complains about everything, but, emotional enough to share their feelings with us. Communication is a huge key in a relationship. Guys have their guys to hang out with, where we communicate on the same thing, however, when we talk to girls. we are more open, and we want to hear what you have to say. but don't come to us about pointless things. You have your girlfriends for that. Most men want a woman to be weak, because it's in our nature to be dominant. We like being in control. However, every once in a while, "I" personally think its attractive when a woman takes control, and is strong. I guess what I am trying to say is. Be your normal feminine self. and every once in a blue moon show some strength.