Because you don't want to be with him. I think that he really wants to be in a relationship, but since you no longer want that, he is going to go elsewhere to get it. I think that the dating site is mainly a back-up to be honest. I mean, what was you expecting for him to do? Did you want to crawl back to you. Just asking. Do you want him back, if not, him being on a dating site shouldn't really matter.
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That's what happens with us. Of course we hurt but we can hurt and look at the same time. If we find someone, we can move slow and in a while we will be ready to date again. If you initiated the break up, you shouldn't care though (unless maybe he cheated or something). Why is it not ok for him to look for someone that actually wants him? I don't get it.
Because he misses the spiritual connection he shared with you. All relationships are spiritual, whether people admit it or not- that is why he feels lonely and empty inside- so instead of weathering the pain of being away from someone he used to care about, he needs to immediately find someone else to fill that gap.
It is called, "The rebound"
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do you still have feelings for him? if you don't then kick him to the curb and keep him there.
Because that is a mans way of dealing with a break up.. we aren't programmed the same way girls are
Why would he be active on a dating site...isn't it obvious? Life continues and he keeps his eyes open for another partner. Best way to forget you.
You broke up with him and are now concerned about his dating habits? Doesn't work that way...
Only 3 days? I was on a dating site 3 minutes after a breakup. It's time to move on
Maybe he's looking for a new girl? Just a thought...
Why should you care?
Define "active".
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