Yes, you did the right thing. There is Zero tolerance for cheaters and liars. Liars can be people who hide stuff from you. There are plenty of good looking guys out there lining up to date you who wouldn't even think about doing that. Cheaters and Liars are always pattern offenders.
I think he is sincere. Trust him if he has NO current contact with the girl he kissed. No text, No facebook, etc.
Do not trust him if he has some form of contact with the girl he kissed.
If you trust him, then forgive him. You only forgive people you trust.
If you cannot trust him, then don't forgive him.
Caution: if you date him again, set the expectations from the start. Even if it means Zero flirting with other girls until you can trust him again. If he is for real, then he will follow and obey your expectations with no rebellion and to the detail.
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okay if this is his first mistake, honestly, only if you feel and want to then you can give him a second chance. but there is not going to be a second mistake. once he makes that second mistake call it quits and tell him to eff off.
Well why did he do it? Was he pursuing the girl for a while, or was it random and not thought out? Either way he took you for granted in that moment, and he can whine and try to win you back all he wants if you take him back there is a chance he'll think he can do whatever he wants and you'll still take him back. You did the right thing in my eyes. And besides it says your under 18, don't waste your time with a chump, you have plenty of years to go through guys like that, change it up find someone who knows how to control themselves.
Awwww poor baby had a panic attack! ...and? Drop him, never look back. How pathetic, don't let someone treat you like that. Of course he's doing everything he can to get you back.
He's told you about it, alleviating HIS guilt because it was eating him up. Now HE feels better, and wants his cake and to eat it too.
Don't look back. Let him whine and beg all he wants. He doesn't value you, otherwise he never would have done that. Be glad he told you, but remember he only did it for himself.
I believe kissing is considered cheating. I agree with the person who said that he told you so that he could relieve his own guilt, because he probably couldn't live with it. Now he wants your relationship to continue? I'm sorry, but if you allow him to treat you like that and get away with kissing someone else...he is going to take advantage of you during the course of your relationship. I wouldn't take him back, its just going to be a huge waste of time in the end.
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You definitely did the right thing; if my boyfriend kissed another girl at any point in our relationship -- be it the first month of us dating or 4 years into our relationship -- I would leave him and would never look back. No non-cheating person deserves to be cheated on in a relationship, and I'm sure that you'll be able to find someone who would treat you better.
Anonymous speaks the truth. If this ever happens again—and it will—you've increased the chances that he'd just conceal it. You should just be thankful that he told you the truth—this time—and move on.
I hate to say this but if I were you I would have probably forgiven him if I was in love with him.
But I know that'd be a mistake so I say don't take him back.No bullshit? Honestly? Look him dead in the face and ask him if he's done. If he's the right one hell say yes. Being done means when you look at her your done looking. That's she's everything you've ever wanted. No excuse. Tell him it has to be that or your out. That's as real as you'll get your answer from a guy.
You actually lucky to have an honest BF, i think you made the wrong decision by breaking up with him cos clearly you did/ said it with anger. Forgive him and try fix the situation. Take it as just one of those obstacles in life. at least he opened up to u and told you the truth cos he wasn't proud of what he did. Hope my opinion add value.
If a guy tells you instead of getting caught he genuinely cares about you and yalls relationship im not saying take him back immediately but it sounds like he's sincerely sorry. it could be worse luckily all he did was kiss her. I say tell him you wanna try to trust him again but he has to earn it back and that you haven't forgiven him yet but your willing to try.
How serious were the two of you when it happened? If it wasn't serious or a really bad rough patch then forgive him. He seems sincere to me.
You Should only do what you feel is right but it seems he is very sincere to me. If you love him and want to give him another chance then go for it
You can forgive him but that doesn't mean you should take him back
Of course he messed up its always the guy. We all know the women in the relationship never messes up. Sarcasm.
Why would he Kiss another girl to begin with! I don't blame you for breaking up with him. I will do the same thing.
You done the right thing zero tolerance for cheating is the best way to go by.
And then people wonder why people rather lie than be sincere...
dont trust him! mean are evil! naw but seriously, you should find a guy that will treat you better than him
Why would he tell you about it?
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