He's a very laid back, quiet guy....how to deal with him?
I've been dating this guy for about 7 weeks now, we met when I got his number and we texted and agreed to meet up. During the first couple of weeks, we went on about 2 - 3 dates a week, then I stayed at his one weekend and then again a few days later, we didn't have sex but we fooled around a bit. There's definitely chemistry between us and we get on really well too. We were both due to go on holiday (separately) which overlapped so we wouldn't see each other for a while and when I asked if he wanted to meet up when he got back, he said yeah but that he was gonna be busy with work and that we'd text each other, he said that I'll come to realize just how busy he gets. (When we first met he said he gets really busy with work because he works for himself) so I thought "oh well if its meant to be, then we'll see what happens when we get back". So it was about 2 weeks later and when I knew he was back home I got in touch to see how his holidays were and we texted just catching up so I left it and waited for him, a few days later he texted saying he'd missed me so we met up. I stayed at his and we just cuddled and watch TV and then he asked when he'd see me again so we decided the weekend, when we got to his he pretty much pounced on me so we fooled around for a bit, then cuddled and later on we got passionate again and then we ended up having sex which was amazing. The next day we went out and about for the day holding hands and he said he'd text me to meet up. I waited a good 5 days for him to contact me and he said he'd been really busy with work etc so I asked if he had much on this weekend (it was my subtle hint) but he's away this weekend and asked if I had much on so I decided to ask if he wanted to meet up when he got back and he said yes, when he got back if I was still up for it.
When we're together he's really affectionate, we cuddle all of the time and he's always kissing my hand or my face. The thing is he is really laid back - the most laid back person I've ever met, and he's quite shy as well, really quite a quiet guy, so I'm not sure if we're boyfriend and girlfriend and we don't text very often - maybe every few days and especially so when we're about to meet up. I know its only early in the relationship but I need some advice...does it seem like its going well and how can I go about getting a bit more communication between us? Especially because he is so laid back. I have been testing him (its wrong to play games I know) but I've left it up to him the past few times to contact me which he has, so that must count for something?
Anyway any advice is greatly appreciated, thanks.
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