Devious huh? Sounds like my kind of girl ;)
What I like to do usually is play the same game. Lead her on, make her meet you somewhere special, maybe dinner at her house. Have her bake you cake or something nice. Then at the last minute pull the plug. Tell her your busy, but you have to make it seem genuine and not dismissive! That way she'll keep coming back for more and you won't be hurt at the same time.
I'm Going To Give You My Professional Unlicensed Opinion, Instead Of Beating Around The Bush, Just Come Out With It & Tell Her Straight Up You Dont Want Anything To Do With Her. Communication Is Key !!
Just don't answer her. She's trying to tie up your time on YOUR day so that nobody else gets to see you and that you won't get to have fun with anyone else.
Don't let her do that to you. If you have to say anything, say sorry you have plans, maybe the following week or the week AFTER that, even.
Haha !! She wants to lay it down haha !! Ok but let's be serious. Let her know what you think and you don't think it's a good idea. Say how much you appreciate her thinking about you but you're (ex gf) not the one I want to spend my bday with... HARSH I KNOW. It's straight to the point.
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BDAY SEX!
Not sure if you want it though. I most certainly wouldn't. Gonna get your emotions all messed up again.
"You can mail the gift to me, I'm busy"
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